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Old 01-12-2013, 09:55 AM
 
Location: Madison, WI
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In my threads on foreign women, the majority of my responses seem to be from ladies wanting to tell me what a "loser" i am or how there is something wrong with me because i can't get American women?

Why? Why would you make a point of telling us that? Us "losers" know you don't like us. You should be glad and supportive of us going overseas to find women. Unless you are a sadist of some sort, if you reject a man and he finds happiness with a foreign woman, it's a win-win for both you and him. Why continue to rub it in our faces what "losers" you think we are? Most of us got the memo somewhere along the line of our years of rejection... that's why we are saving up our money to leave. There's no reason for you to continue to make our lives miserable while we are in the process of saving our money, learning a new language, and otherwise making plans. It takes some time to move to another country! We will be out of your hair soon enough.
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Old 01-12-2013, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Who cares. Do you and disregard whatever some lady on CD is saying.
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Old 01-12-2013, 10:11 AM
 
Location: Central California
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Who cares. Do you and disregard whatever some lady on CD is saying.
This is the best advice I've ever heard on here.

Disregard what everybody thinks of you....but ESPECIALLY disregard what the ladies of CD think (in fact, do the exact opposite, if possible).
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Old 01-12-2013, 10:13 AM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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Disregard what everybody thinks of you....but ESPECIALLY disregard what the ladies of CD think (in fact, do the exact opposite, if possible).
Lmao. In many cases.
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Old 01-12-2013, 10:15 AM
 
Location: Pa
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Are you still talking?
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Old 01-12-2013, 10:16 AM
 
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I think it stems from the fact most foreign women and I don't mean foreign women that guys have met here, I'm talking the true mail order brides, are with old men. It looks creepy that old men have bought themselves a young woman. I work with 3 guys who have foreign wives but they all met them through work, they all spoke English and they all had careers. Big difference.

My post about them leaving their family or you leaving yours, was in jest but there is truth to it. The practicalities of marrying a foreigner are expensive and complicated. Men on this forum have thrown around the mail order brides for years but the actual reality of it is so much more difficult. It costs a lot of money to emigrate, trust me, I've done it.
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Old 01-12-2013, 10:25 AM
 
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Hey I think I have been very encouraging! :
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Old 01-12-2013, 10:26 AM
 
Location: Madison, WI
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I think it stems from the fact most foreign women and I don't mean foreign women that guys have met here, I'm talking the true mail order brides, are with old men. It looks creepy that old men have bought themselves a young woman. I work with 3 guys who have foreign wives but they all met them through work, they all spoke English and they all had careers. Big difference.

My post about them leaving their family or you leaving yours, was in jest but there is truth to it. The practicalities of marrying a foreigner are expensive and complicated. Men on this forum have thrown around the mail order brides for years but the actual reality of it is so much more difficult. It costs a lot of money to emigrate, trust me, I've done it.
Thanks for taking the time to explain.
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Old 01-12-2013, 11:36 AM
 
Location: Miami, FL
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In my threads on foreign women, the majority of my responses seem to be from ladies wanting to tell me what a "loser" i am or how there is something wrong with me because i can't get American women?

Why? Why would you make a point of telling us that? Us "losers" know you don't like us. You should be glad and supportive of us going overseas to find women. Unless you are a sadist of some sort, if you reject a man and he finds happiness with a foreign woman, it's a win-win for both you and him. Why continue to rub it in our faces what "losers" you think we are? Most of us got the memo somewhere along the line of our years of rejection... that's why we are saving up our money to leave. There's no reason for you to continue to make our lives miserable while we are in the process of saving our money, learning a new language, and otherwise making plans. It takes some time to move to another country! We will be out of your hair soon enough.
Because it means less men who will give them attention and money.

Poindexter is finally waking up and going overseas.

Remember, women date the jerks and badboys when they're young but they marry POINDEXTER!

This means there will be less poindexters available to give them security as the women age.
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Old 01-12-2013, 12:20 PM
 
Location: Davenport, Iowa
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Because a lot of the "date foreign women" advice is included in the "bash western women (or any women)" threads. I don't care who anyone dates, but someone with a really negative view of women probably won't have much more luck with someone from another country.

If you want to date foreign women, that's great but it doesn't mean every woman in the USA is the devil.
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