Have you cheated? Will you cheat? and why (dating, boyfriend, marry)
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I have to be honest. All the dogooders on this forum makes me kind of sick. We come to the forum to connect with real people with real problems. and certainly none of us are perfect, we do go through normal human emotions. I am no saint, but I am not evil okay?
I have never cheated on anybody, but I am thinking about it, why? because I am pissed!!!!!!
I am not going into the details but the ******* parents of the dude i am dating setting him up with a family friend knowing we are still together, my soon to be ex boyfriend went along with the date!!! His excuse is "I cann't afford making my mother upset because she loves me."
I am thinking about going out with my college friend. I always had a crush on him and I recently found out he liked me too!! He is currently available, and we bumped into each other in the mall. I haven't made any move because I feel so guilty.
I know two wrong doesn't make a right, I know the blah blah and one size fits all cliche type of advices people are going to dish out here, but I cannot help feeling resentful of my current situation. I am thinking If I am dating a dude whose parents encourage him cheating on me, why do I need to stay faithful?
I want to cheat to just get caught. I knnow I shouldn't be thinking this way, but I can't help it.
Your prior thread asked how you can break up with the guy gently because you have a hard time hurting people's feelings. I guess that motive is out the window.
If your "supposed" bf is seeing other women, inform him that you are no longer exclusive and date who you want. It sends him a message, may make him define his priorities, and frees you up to ethically do as you please. If he's going on dates because of his parents, he can say no, of course - if he doesn't, then that tells you something too.
I have to be honest. All the dogooders on this forum makes me kind of sick. We come to the forum to connect with real people with real problems. and certainly none of us are perfect, we do go through normal human emotions. I am no saint, but I am not evil okay?
I have never cheated on anybody, but I am thinking about it, why? because I am pissed!!!!!!
I am not going into the details but the ******* parents of the dude i am dating setting him up with a family friend knowing we are still together, my soon to be ex boyfriend went along with the date!!! His excuse is "I cann't afford making my mother upset because she loves me."
I am thinking about going out with my college friend. I always had a crush on him and I recently found out he liked me too!! He is currently available, and we bumped into each other in the mall. I haven't made any move because I feel so guilty.
I know two wrong doesn't make a right, I know the blah blah and one size fits all cliche type of advices people are going to dish out here, but I cannot help feeling resentful of my current situation. I am thinking If I am dating a dude whose parents encourage him cheating on me, why do I need to stay faithful?
I want to cheat to just get caught. I knnow I shouldn't be thinking this way, but I can't help it.
LOOOOOOL. Believe me, we ALL know the details so far as you have been making thread after thread after thread about your cheating sick BF. Why don't you just dump him already... girrrrrlll please..
What would be the motivation in cheating to get caught....sounds like your boyfriend/fiance whatever really doesn't care about you and it would just give your future ex in laws a way to shame you.
So are you going to marry him, break up with him or cheat on him?
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Originally Posted by lilyflower3191981
I have to be honest. All the dogooders on this forum makes me kind of sick. We come to the forum to connect with real people with real problems. and certainly none of us are perfect, we do go through normal human emotions
Yes, but we don't cycle through them as rapidly as you seem to!
Who wants to bet how quickly she'll start a new thread...maybe this one will be how many bridesmaids should I have, then the next one will be, should I break up because my fiance's mom is mean?
I feel very resentful of the situation, and I am still in love with my current boyfriend.
I don't know what goes through my head and I am going through all these emotions on second basis. I am going crazy I think.
I invested 2 years love and my time with this dude, and his whole family treats me like ****.
I don't know if I should just dump him start anew, or just stay with him working things out.
I don't know if I can trust him in the future or what not. I am a mess.
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