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Some people who have the urge to cheat perhaps see it as a signal that their relationship isn't going well. They end the relationship first, then pursue others.
cheating on someone you claim to love is a disgrace in my opinion! you should break it off then move on, there is no need what so ever to hurt someone like that. only a weak individual would cheat.
Maybe i expect too much but i would expect my SO to me 100% committied to me, no flirting with other girls in person or online, no messaging them or hanging out with them UNLESS they were only friends
I didn't read all this but given your immense number of threads, I can conclude that:
You want to break up with him but you're scared of being alone and are of the mindset that being with someone is better than being with no one. If that weren't the case, you would've ended it instead of making a bazillion threads in which everyone has told you the same thing over & over.
I didn't read all this but given your immense number of threads, I can conclude that:
You want to break up with him but you're scared of being alone and are of the mindset that being with someone is better than being with no one. If that weren't the case, you would've ended it instead of making a bazillion threads in which everyone has told you the same thing over & over.
She also has mentioned she wants to punish him by cheating.
She also has mentioned she wants to punish him by cheating.
right! I have been thinking about it.
but then again, it is perhaps not worth it to be completely honest.
If I do cheat, that will ONLY tell him and his parents that what his parents thought about me is true. I cannot give them that satisfaction. So I will let myself cool down for couple of days, then make a decision. No cheating simply because I don't think he is worth it.
I have to be honest. All the dogooders on this forum makes me kind of sick. We come to the forum to connect with real people with real problems. and certainly none of us are perfect, we do go through normal human emotions. I am no saint, but I am not evil okay?
I have never cheated on anybody, but I am thinking about it, why? because I am pissed!!!!!!
I am not going into the details but the ******* parents of the dude i am dating setting him up with a family friend knowing we are still together, my soon to be ex boyfriend went along with the date!!! His excuse is "I cann't afford making my mother upset because she loves me."
I am thinking about going out with my college friend. I always had a crush on him and I recently found out he liked me too!! He is currently available, and we bumped into each other in the mall. I haven't made any move because I feel so guilty.
I know two wrong doesn't make a right, I know the blah blah and one size fits all cliche type of advices people are going to dish out here, but I cannot help feeling resentful of my current situation. I am thinking If I am dating a dude whose parents encourage him cheating on me, why do I need to stay faithful?
I want to cheat to just get caught. I knnow I shouldn't be thinking this way, but I can't help it.
why dont you put on ypur big girl panties and end the relationship? its clear he doesnt care about your opinion or feelings only his mothers matter so why stay in that kind of relationship? break up with him and go out with the other guy, if you handle it like an adult it will probably **** him and is parents off more that their opinion of you was wrong!!
I feel very resentful of the situation, and I am still in love with my current boyfriend.
I don't know what goes through my head and I am going through all these emotions on second basis. I am going crazy I think.
I invested 2 years love and my time with this dude, and his whole family treats me like ****.
I don't know if I should just dump him start anew, or just stay with him working things out.
I don't know if I can trust him in the future or what not. I am a mess.
Yeah, you're pissed. I get it. But wouldn't you rather be happy than somewhat vengeful and satisfied? By cheating, you are only giving him and his family affirmation for the way they treated you.
Move on, and don't utter one more single word to this guy. That will kill him, just knowing you have no interest in ever speaking with him again, will wreak havoc in his mind.
But most of all, move on.
I want my own talk show.
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