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But how do I do that though? I don't know what makes me happy at this point.
I don't know if I can live without my boyfriend, and I don't know if I can live with him.
I don't know if we have a future, and I don't know if he went out with the girl just to please his mother, or his feeling about me truely changed.
All these questions, no answers. This is my situation.
Get off this site, don't go on any more sites. Sit down without your boyfriend or anyone in your ear, have simple silence. List the advantages and disadvantages of having a boyfriend. List the advantages and disadvantages of being with your current boyfriend. Make a list of your goals and your dreams, make a list of things you do not like about you and list life decisions that made deep impacts. List the good things about your life, find out why you are living. After all of those lists, schedule a time to talk to a psychiatrist and present them with your lists, talk about what you have told us. After that you probably need to schedule a week a lone. Put your phone on silent, don't turn on the internet unless business or school related, don't sit at home either, go out and do things. The key is to find what makes you happy, because we can't decide it for you, and it's obviously you're too wrapped up in this relationship which is not good, and your boyfriend is easily swayed by his parents.
Maybe OP thinks this will make the guy desire her more?
well im so weird, at one point...yes i would want to punish her and you better believe there is going to be some tying up and punishment involved . After the mood is over, I would probably feel sick, disgusted and not want her to touch me...oh well
You are suggesting that bad behaviors should just be rewarded.
He went on a date, and I dump him, he starts a happy life with somebody new without feeling guilty?!
Him catching you with another dude, won't make him feel guilty either. It would just confirm whatever his parents are telling him about you. Him feeling guilty is not for you to decide, you can't make a person feel something they don't want to feel, or don't think they should feel.
well im so weird, at one point...yes i would want to punish her and you better believe there is going to be some tying up and punishment involved . After the mood is over, I would probably feel sick, disgusted and not want her to touch me...oh well
Him catching you with another dude, won't make him feel guilty either. It would just confirm whatever his parents are telling him about you. Him feeling guilty is not for you to decide, you can't make a person feel something they don't want to feel, or don't think they should feel.
Get off this site, don't go on any more sites. Sit down without your boyfriend or anyone in your ear, have simple silence. List the advantages and disadvantages of having a boyfriend. List the advantages and disadvantages of being with your current boyfriend. Make a list of your goals and your dreams, make a list of things you do not like about you and list life decisions that made deep impacts. List the good things about your life, find out why you are living. After all of those lists, schedule a time to talk to a psychiatrist and present them with your lists, talk about what you have told us. After that you probably need to schedule a week a lone. Put your phone on silent, don't turn on the internet unless business or school related, don't sit at home either, go out and do things. The key is to find what makes you happy, because we can't decide it for you, and it's obviously you're too wrapped up in this relationship which is not good, and your boyfriend is easily swayed by his parents.
Thank you so much for your kind words and advices. I might just do what you have suggested.
Oh grow up. How old are you, 13? You're posting thread after thread about the same issue, your miserable relationship. You don't live together, in fact you don't even live in the same town as him. It's a long distance relationship where he has little invested in you and you are running around in circles around him like a chicken with its head chopped off.You're really acting like a very immature schoolgirl. I suggest you cut off contact and go to therapy to start working on your extreme co-dependent attitude towards men.
And stop posting a minor variation of the same issue.
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. After the mood is over, I would probably feel sick, disgusted and not want her to touch me...oh well
Everyone is capable of cheating
