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You see him once a week for a month. So, essentially, y'all have been on 4-5 dates? That is not long enough to delete your profile for someone. Are y'all even exclusive? I see no point in deleting a profile otherwise.
Are you certain he added these pictures after you agreed to be exclusive? I deleted my account, but apparently my profile is still active because I'm still getting notified of emails and winks...and I haven't logged onto the site in over a month, I'm not even able to read my emails since I'm no longer an active member. Yet it seems my profile is still showing as active to other members. Some of those sites are tricky, so you should be careful what you accuse him of. However, if he is still trolling the site and updating his profile after you agreed to be exclusive, then he must not be very serious about you. You guys have an intimate relationship, you've agreed not to see anyone else...you should be able to just ask him...or maybe tell him you're going to delete your profile and see what his reaction is. If you guys can't communicate now then it doesn't bode well for your future.
You met this guy online and have no idea of what his true intentions are. He may actually like you a lot and he's just keeping his options open just incase you two don't work out. If you guys had been together for a year or two than it would definitely be a red flag, but at this point it sounds like he's just protecting himself.
If I didn't check his profile, I wouldn't have any doubt about his intention. He's been very attentive to me. He takes good care of me when were together. We talk about 5-6 days a week. He initiates most contacts. I will initiate maybe one or two. I have no complains about how he's treating me except the photo he uploaded.
Of course you can talk to him. Tell him that you went online to delete old messages since you're no longer looking, and saw that he'd uploaded a new photo recently. Ask him if he still wants to be exclusive. He may have uploaded it before you decided to be exclusive, of course.
That's the thing I don't know when the picture was uploaded because I stopped going to that site for a while and just logged in again last night.
If I didn't check his profile, I wouldn't have any doubt about his intention. He's been very attentive to me. He takes good care of me when were together. We talk about 5-6 days a week. He initiates most contacts. I will initiate maybe one or two. I have no complains about how he's treating me except the photo he uploaded.
You see him once a week for a month. So, essentially, y'all have been on 4-5 dates? That is not long enough to delete your profile for someone. Are y'all even exclusive? I see no point in deleting a profile otherwise.
We agreed to not be intimate and go on dates with other people.
Are you certain he added these pictures after you agreed to be exclusive? I deleted my account, but apparently my profile is still active because I'm still getting notified of emails and winks...and I haven't logged onto the site in over a month, I'm not even able to read my emails since I'm no longer an active member. Yet it seems my profile is still showing as active to other members. Some of those sites are tricky, so you should be careful what you accuse him of. However, if he is still trolling the site and updating his profile after you agreed to be exclusive, then he must not be very serious about you. You guys have an intimate relationship, you've agreed not to see anyone else...you should be able to just ask him...or maybe tell him you're going to delete your profile and see what his reaction is. If you guys can't communicate now then it doesn't bode well for your future.
I'm not really sure when the picture was added because I stopped checking the website until last night. I have no problem talking to him about it but my concern is if I really have to or it's not really a big deal to bring it up because he's treating me well anyway and how to tell him in a way that I wouldn't scare him.
Do you know exactly when he uploaded the new picture? You said you hadn't logged in in awhile; is it possible that he uploaded the new picture since the last time you logged in, but before the two of you decided to make it exclusive?
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