Men, would you be a sugar daddy given the chance? (loyalty, husband)
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I'm just curious, how do a bunch of people who are disgusted by it, will never do it and, as such, have never done it, know what it's all about? Hmmmmm?
"People are treated better if they are unattractive and vice versa if they are unattractive." ...West Philly Dude get your words straight.
I totally believe in love. You just have to commit to the woman, tell her you love her (if you do), go on adventures together, keep the spice going by trying new things together (and I don't mean having sex with other people...), and keep looking your best for that person.
I'm just curious, how do a bunch of people who are disgusted by it, will never do it and, as such, have never done it, know what it's all about? Hmmmmm?
Rep, Thats the million dollar question. It's like the life long virgin on this board talking about sex as if they get it
Stabby Abby, there will always be someone like you in defense of prostitution. No matter how eloquently you frame it, it's just lowly and gross. Even if you're a camgirl not getting STD's, all you are is jack-off material.
Think of how much of a better place the world might be if the 42 million prostitutes on the planet instead put their mind to good use, learning and working in a field that would directly benefit society and the planet (not just horny penises). We need those people to use their brains to help to solve issues such as global warming, health, and poverty.
Which is exactly what I'm doing by going to university for an environmental degree. I feel good about myself. I feel that I have a meaningful, respectable life purpose. If I had dropped out of high school to become a sex worker, I'm sure I would have low self worth, and look back with regret on my younger years. Not to mention catch AIDS or something.
There's also the factor of diminished respect from family. My own parents found out that I had done camming and were very sad to find out. I don't blame them. If I had a daughter and spent 18 years raising her, educating her, and all she panned out to be was an object of exploitation, I'd be disappointed in that outcome as well.
Entertainment is important, but renting out your holes to one dick after another is just gross. ESPECIALLY if you're in a first world country like Canada, where if you apply yourself it is easy to get a job that will provide you with a very comfortable living if you go through the necessary schooling. So many people are just lazy; they want to live an easy life in luxury without doing their share of positive contribution to society. If the whole world was like that, what a mess it would be. It's just like the criminals who would rather steal, or capitalize on drug addicts by producing and selling hard drugs (with sheer disregard of the ills drugs cause, but only selfish desire for an easy living no matter what effect it has on the world around them).
But, sigh, when it comes to a polarizing subject like this, arguing doesn't seem to accomplish much. People seem rather stubborn where whoredom is concerned.
In a world like this, it's all too easy to be at least somewhat misanthropic.
1. There is plenty of female-on-male and female-on-female prostitution going on.
2. Not everyone wants to or can be a doctor/scientist/engineer.
3. Most environmental, health and poverty are self-caused and people will never accept the solutions. Lost cause.
4. Lucky for me, I don't base my life or self worth on my job or sexual availability status. If I could, I would go and live on a shack on the beach in Tahiti, but you'd be surprised at how expensive that is.
5. You do know that it's possible for people to get STD's without having sex with a prostitute or being a prostitute, right?
6. I really don't care what my family thinks. If you want to be your parent's mini me, then go ahead.
7. You're only an object of exploitation if you let yourself be.
8. Um, you do realise that camgirls, strippers, prostitutes where it's legal such as Germany etc. must pay taxes too, right? Paying taxes = positive contribution to society. Or did you cheat on your taxes while you were working as a camgirl? It's odd that you didn't know that camgirls had to pay taxes too. Hm...Anyway it's rather presumptuous of you to assume that just because one is a sex worker, one must not contribute anything positive to society. I am a stripclub waitress. In addition to paying taxes, I am a registered organ donor, I have adopted several abandoned cats and I gave a poor pregnant college student $380 for an abortion she needed. It's ignorant to assume that there is no other way to make a positive contribution to society unless you're doing some white collar job.
Due to a genetic illness that runs in my family, I will probably die before I turn 40. I'm 20 now. I live my life based on the assumption that I only have 20 years left to live. I want the maximum available return on investment (my time and energy). What is wrong with that? I am personally interested in "easy" money (it's not really that easy) because I don't have long to live anyway! Why the hell should I waste my precious life working for minimum wage? My happiness is more important than some arbitrary social conventions. As long as one is not hurting others, then why shouldn't one be free to live their life as one pleases?
For someone who claims to be studying for a degree, you seem to have to lot of spare time on hands for poking your nose into other people's private lives.
Question: What business is it of yours if GROWN CONSENTING ADULTS choose to have sex in private, whether or not money changes hands?
Answer: It's not your business and it doesn't affect you.
I'm curious how many of you men in you're 30's to 50's would prefer to spend a lot of money on what is basically a prostitute of college age, rather than have a true love romance and committed partnership with someone closer to your age and about as intelligent?
I'm 21 and apparently females in my age bracket are all like, yay, of course I'll pimp myself out for money! I have a boyfriend who is 13 years older, and he doesn't even take me out to dinner, let alone buy me flowers because he's poor. The idea of a sugar daddy has appealed to me just because I do appreciate the fine life, but I'd rather get an honest job and work my way up through education because that dynamic is so heartless and superficial. And having a partner who loves me more for my personality than my physical self is preferred. All you (sugar daddy) men want is fresh meat, and aren't willing to put the time and effort into cultivating a lasting and loving relationship with a more mature woman. When I'm older, in my 30's let's say, and see a lot of men my age disinterested in a committed relationship with someone like me because they want someone just out of high school I think I will be sickened. Girls my age, even girls I know, are becoming prostitutes so they can be lazy. I bet older women are disgusted by the lack of morals and self-respect (to be willing to exploit themselves) of younger women like myself, and feel I should do them a favor by not adding myself to the pool of young whores.
I wonder, if my own boyfriend became rich, would he leave me for someone younger, who he wouldn't have to commit to? Probably.
I'm a cynical person, but also a realistic person. I bet most men would prefer to be a sugar daddy given the chance.
It's a give and take. He, wants the company of beauty and She, comforts of what money can buy. I wouldn't judge.
That is something called life. People are treated better if they are unattractive and vice versa if they are unattractive.
Attractiveness is not universal.
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