What's his deal? (dating, girl, cheating, Valentine's Day)
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This a follow-up from a previous thread entitled "Why did my guy feel the need to lie".
Basically in a nutshell, the guy I was dating for 3 months was too "busy" for a true relationship with me so we broke it off 2 weeks before Valentine's Day. Then I find out he spent Valentine's Day with a girl that he was dating WHILE he was dating me. So because he lied about that, I unfollowed him on twitter and unfriended him on Facebook.
Now ever since I cut him off, he's been reaching out to my friends. He wished one of my friend's a "Happy Birthday! I want you to know that I care!" He also reached out to my best friend and told her about some deejaying gigs he could set her up with. He started "liking" her updates on Facebook as well.
I'm done with the guy but I'm just confused as to why he's doing this.
Maybe he wants you still on the hook in case he changes his mind about dating you in the future. I was dating a guy who decided he didn't want a relationship, then a couple months later he started contacting me again. Then when I contacted him, HE blew ME off. Don't be tempted to contact him, just leave it alone and move on. Trust me. Not worth it.
Do yourself a favor and block him on FB so you don't see those updates. Move on from him... whatever his issues are, they aren't your problem. Don't waste time with a rotten man when there are so many good men out there.
This a follow-up from a previous thread entitled "Why did my guy feel the need to lie".
Basically in a nutshell, the guy I was dating for 3 months was too "busy" for a true relationship with me so we broke it off 2 weeks before Valentine's Day. Then I find out he spent Valentine's Day with a girl that he was dating WHILE he was dating me. So because he lied about that, I unfollowed him on twitter and unfriended him on Facebook.
Now ever since I cut him off, he's been reaching out to my friends. He wished one of my friend's a "Happy Birthday! I want you to know that I care!" He also reached out to my best friend and told her about some deejaying gigs he could set her up with. He started "liking" her updates on Facebook as well.
I'm done with the guy but I'm just confused as to why he's doing this.
Probably trying to get back at you for unfriending him on facebook and twitter.
He's just a lying, cheating creep who enjoys playing mind games with you. If your friends have any sense, they should ignore him too or they may end up on his "hit it" list.
He's just a lying, cheating creep who enjoys playing mind games with you. If your friends have any sense, they should ignore him too or they may end up on his "hit it" list.
Maybe he wants you still on the hook in case he changes his mind about dating you in the future. I was dating a guy who decided he didn't want a relationship, then a couple months later he started contacting me again. Then when I contacted him, HE blew ME off. Don't be tempted to contact him, just leave it alone and move on. Trust me. Not worth it.
I agree, Don't give him another minute of your valuable time. And don't be someone's "second choice" either ever or be on anyone's hook.
Really? The guy isn't a saint, but he never commited to a relationship with you. Why'd you let him string you along so long if you wanted a relationship so bad?
He's probably just an outgoing guy, and became friends with your friends. Not exactly a crime...
Well, he knew both of my friends before he started dating me. So I doubt he's trying to "hit it" with them.
But regardless, he's done with, and he'll never hear from me again.
That info was a little late but useful. Good. Move on. I don't even know why you would waste your time posting this. If he's friends with them, he has the right to talk to them. Don't know why you would even care? The question you should be asking yourself is: "What's MY DEAL?" It seems like the issue lies with just you. You can't seem to let it go.
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