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Old 02-20-2013, 06:10 PM
 
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This is not bashing. This is just saying that dating is just not for me, and in so deciding, I also can say I reject all women. This means I don't have to feel bad about having been rejected, because instead it is me who has done the rejection of all women.


I rejected all women by not making myself more desirable to them. It would have been relatively straightforward to do things like clean up my appearance and style and lift weights and do other things that make women attracted to men, but I decided not to do these things.

I rejected all women by not trying to learn where to meet women, and by not doing social activities.

I rejected all women by not asking out those I've met in the past and thought about asking out, because of fear of being rejected myself, or because of simply not wanting to be in a relationship and using fear of rejection as one good reason to avoid them.

Now there is one that I asked out some 7 years ago, and we went on a lunch date, but later on she rejected me eventually after stringing me along by saying she was interested but was too busy just then to go out again. She was kind of strange and I have some reason to believe she was seriously dating somebody else at the time and I was just some kind of back up plan or something. So being rejected in that case was not at all painful, really. It makes me a little embarrassed to wonder how weird she thought I was, but it doesn't really matter.

I reject the "dating game" and "dating markets" and making myself more desireable to women, and selling myself, and all of that stuff, because I don't think what I'd get out of that would be worth all the effort. I don't want to be in a relationship with somebody telling me what to do, and having to share my time all the time, and stuff like that.

So there we are. I hope this post is less offensive to people than my last one was. And I am not asking for help, I am simply making a post. I welcome any comments about my latest theory of dating in Davros' world. I am not bitter at all.
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:11 PM
 
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Grats! I'll send you a bottle of hand lotion to celebrate.
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Albuquerque, NM
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This means I don't have to feel bad about having been rejected, because instead it is me who has done the rejection of all women.

I am not bitter at all.
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:17 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:18 PM
 
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I can't speak on behalf of the woman of the world, but based on your post,, i think they'd say THANK YOU


dont you learn from others on here- ???
time to lease a professional,,, hire a ho
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:22 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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This is not bashing. This is just saying that dating is just not for me, and in so deciding, I also can say I reject all women. This means I don't have to feel bad about having been rejected, because instead it is me who has done the rejection of all women.


I rejected all women by not making myself more desirable to them. It would have been relatively straightforward to do things like clean up my appearance and style and lift weights and do other things that make women attracted to men, but I decided not to do these things.

I rejected all women by not trying to learn where to meet women, and by not doing social activities.

I rejected all women by not asking out those I've met in the past and thought about asking out, because of fear of being rejected myself, or because of simply not wanting to be in a relationship and using fear of rejection as one good reason to avoid them.

Now there is one that I asked out some 7 years ago, and we went on a lunch date, but later on she rejected me eventually after stringing me along by saying she was interested but was too busy just then to go out again. She was kind of strange and I have some reason to believe she was seriously dating somebody else at the time and I was just some kind of back up plan or something. So being rejected in that case was not at all painful, really. It makes me a little embarrassed to wonder how weird she thought I was, but it doesn't really matter.

I reject the "dating game" and "dating markets" and making myself more desireable to women, and selling myself, and all of that stuff, because I don't think what I'd get out of that would be worth all the effort. I don't want to be in a relationship with somebody telling me what to do, and having to share my time all the time, and stuff like that.

So there we are. I hope this post is less offensive to people than my last one was. And I am not asking for help, I am simply making a post. I welcome any comments about my latest theory of dating in Davros' world. I am not bitter at all.

Translation :

"I am too much of a loser to get women"
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:29 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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I have rejected all women
So now what?

[there's only so much internet]
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:30 PM
 
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"I am too much of a loser to get women"
Nope. I've rejected all women. I could have done more to make myself more desirable to women. I could have done more to meet women. But I chose not to. I rejected them all.
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:31 PM
 
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[there's only so much internet]
That's what you think.
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Old 02-20-2013, 06:32 PM
 
Location: Atlanta & NYC
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