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Maybe...for some people who don't know how to prioritize.
What can I say?
My wife is good at sex.
But if she weren't, it would still be ok.
Because what I love about her and our life together has NOTHING to do with sex.
I don't mean to pry, but before you were married and you were just getting serious with your wife, would you say the same thing?
My tune could totally change if I were to marry someone, because we both have lives, maybe we have kids or she brings some into the relationship, so the sex won't be as frequent, and it's also possible that the sex won't be as amazing, but the relationship won't, or shouldn't, depend on how compatible we are in the bedroom.
I don't mean to pry, but before you were married and you were just getting serious with your wife, would you say the same thing?
My tune could totally change if I were to marry someone, because we both have lives, maybe we have kids or she brings some into the relationship, so the sex won't be as frequent, and it's also possible that the sex won't be as amazing, but the relationship won't, or shouldn't, depend on how compatible we are in the bedroom.
Here's the thing.
i was with these other 2 chicks (one for 10 months, the other for 7 years) where the sex was so HOT HOT HOT it was insane. I mean, rockin' hot. I mean sweaty, freakin' insane HOT.
And those relationships died.
And the sex died.
Why? Because of our incompatibility on other issues, I lost respect for these people. There was resentment and irritation. So no matter how crazy HOT the sex was, it was all dependent on how the rest of the relationship ran. You get me?
Let me tell you something...you as a dude and me as a woman. If you don't keep your wife happy in other aspects of your life, you will see that your sex will dwindle and die. Because to a woman, the sex is awesome and can be a huge part of your relationship...but only if the rest of the relationship is ticking right and working right. I know how as a dude it seems irrelevant to you. But it's not. To all those guys out there who feel like their wives are shutting them out - go fix your relationship and your day-to-day doings and how you are...you may see a total 180 on the sex front.
Here's the thing.
i was with these other 2 chicks (one for 10 months, the other for 7 years) where the sex was so HOT HOT HOT it was insane. I mean, rockin' hot. I mean sweaty, freakin' insane HOT.
And those relationships died.
And the sex died.
Why? Because of our incompatibility on other issues, I lost respect for these people. There was resentment and irritation. So no matter how crazy HOT the sex was, it was all dependent on how the rest of the relationship ran. You get me?
Let me tell you something...you as a dude and me as a woman. If you don't keep your wife happy in other aspects of your life, you will see that your sex will dwindle and die. Because to a woman, the sex is awesome and can be a huge part of your relationship...but only if the rest of the relationship is ticking right and working right. I know how as a dude it seems irrelevant to you. But it's not. To all those guys out there who feel like their wives are shutting them out - go fix your relationship and your day-to-day doings and how you are...you may see a total 180 on the sex front.
Absolutely agreed as someone who has been there, done that
Here's the thing.
i was with these other 2 chicks (one for 10 months, the other for 7 years) where the sex was so HOT HOT HOT it was insane. I mean, rockin' hot. I mean sweaty, freakin' insane HOT.
And those relationships died.
And the sex died.
Why? Because of our incompatibility on other issues, I lost respect for these people. There was resentment and irritation. So no matter how crazy HOT the sex was, it was all dependent on how the rest of the relationship ran. You get me?
Let me tell you something...you as a dude and me as a woman. If you don't keep your wife happy in other aspects of your life, you will see that your sex will dwindle and die. Because to a woman, the sex is awesome and can be a huge part of your relationship...but only if the rest of the relationship is ticking right and working right. I know how as a dude it seems irrelevant to you. But it's not. To all those guys out there who feel like their wives are shutting them out - go fix your relationship and your day-to-day doings and how you are...you may see a total 180 on the sex front.
lol I didn't need a lecture, I knew these things already. When I was involved with someone I didn't have any issues in getting sex, I'd just initiate and that was it. Yes, there needs to be other things that's required to have a successful relationship, as it requires work to keep your partner happy.
I just continued with keeping the thread on topic.
Let me tell you something...you as a dude and me as a woman. If you don't keep your wife happy in other aspects of your life, you will see that your sex will dwindle and die. Because to a woman, the sex is awesome and can be a huge part of your relationship...but only if the rest of the relationship is ticking right and working right. I know how as a dude it seems irrelevant to you. But it's not. To all those guys out there who feel like their wives are shutting them out - go fix your relationship and your day-to-day doings and how you are...you may see a total 180 on the sex front.
So a man has to mow the lawn, do the dishes, and dole out compliments and all the woman has to do it take her clothes off and lay down. That's a sweet arrangement there!
I would first try and teach my partner some new tricks or at least express my sexual frustration to her.
But if she was that bad I may have to resort to some things I never thought I'd have to resort too...
Obviously, relationships should not be based 100% on sex. However, would you be able to stay with someone if their sex was not pleasing you. What if they only were able to provide you with good sex when they were drunk? If you were to break up with them would you tell them the reason that you no longer wanted to be with them was because their sex was not good?
Why is that THEIR sex??? So far I know it takes two to have sex...
So, if you are not pleased, then why don't you say so, and teach him/her some?? After you show him what you like and how it supposed to be done, he/she might be the best lover you ever had.
No one is born with that knowledge, and no one can read your mind, and no one technique pleases all.
Speak up!
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