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Old 04-08-2013, 02:28 PM
FBJ
 
Location: Tall Building down by the river
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I'm still trying to figure why I enjoy getting kissed on the neck by attractive women but when I know if a man was doing it I would be wanting to puke. lol

 
Old 04-08-2013, 02:45 PM
 
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Heh - right on.

Sensationalist wisdom would say that we are insecure, homophobic, etc.

Or it could be that we are attracted to women and not men therefore things of a provactive nature will get us going more when done by a women than a man.

One of my best friends from childhood is gay. I'm going to his wedding this year. Growing up we may have seen some of the same movies in a typical teenage look what I found fashion - even if we were keyed into different parts of that movie.

I love this guy and he's a good dude.

I had a roomate in college - also gay. My first inclination that he was probably gay was when I had to use his computer to finish up a project when my computer broke down and noticed an overwhelming amount of gay porn.

Also a very good dude.

They would never be turned on by a couple women together - because they simply aren't turned on by women. A couple men on the otherhand..............

Converse holds true for me.

We could never go to the same strip club or anything like that and have equal enjoyment. While the thought of kissing a guy, or rubbing up on muscles or hairy chests are absolute turnoffs for me ...... for them it may work.

Meanwhile, they want nothing to do with anything I like

So instead we focus on common ground stuff .... like beer, whiskey, cracking jokes, arguing about sports, complaining about how the rest of the people we interact with are frustrating dopes, etc

A thread like this isn't worth bringing up in the limited amount of time I get to spend around them now, but if I did bring it up I know them well enough to know they would also find it absurd
 
Old 04-09-2013, 12:19 AM
 
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Timmyy View Post
Someone has been watching Spartacus too much.
No idea what that is - if it is a popular culture reference I should point out I do not actually own a television.
 
Old 04-09-2013, 12:21 AM
 
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Originally Posted by WestPhillyDude75 View Post
Men should only find lesbianism disgusting if it's two unattractive women. I don't know many straight men who would not be excited to watch "two hot women make out"
Anecodote is not evidence. Just because you do not know of such people personally - that does not mean they do not exist. Many people exist - as I said in an earlier post - who are disgusted by homosexuality on many levels. Personal - moral - religious or whatever crap.

However it was not my contention - but that of user Black Jack22 - that "In the centuries past, men didn't even find lesbians appealing." - so take it up with him not me.
 
Old 04-09-2013, 07:05 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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Doesn't do anything for me unless it is two big boobed women admiring each others boobs. Four big boobs pressing against each other stirs me, but then again 2 big boobs do also.
 
Old 04-09-2013, 07:16 PM
 
Location: DC
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Relevant article: Lesbian Erotica: Why Do Guys Like It? | mancouch

It argues men don't watch any sort of porn to see a another male boinking a female. They watch it for the female's sexual reactions, which in some cases requires a man to be in the scene using his sex organ. Two woman, however = twice the fun without the man muscles and other "extremities".
 
Old 04-09-2013, 07:20 PM
FBJ
 
Location: Tall Building down by the river
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My female friend just told me tonight she likes to see two men make out

I was shocked and grossed out at the same time
 
Old 04-09-2013, 07:54 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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A lot of women will play up 'pseudo' bisexuality to get a pat on the back from men. I seen so many women do this, they will clap like a seal and juggle a ball on their noses just to get approval from guys that are around. It's pathetic.
 
Old 04-09-2013, 07:58 PM
 
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A lot of women like going to stripclubs to watch other naked women too.

They try to act like they're just there to "critique" or "support a friend", but they enjoy it too
 
Old 04-09-2013, 08:02 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, NY
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