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I'll bite. Unless a woman shows me signs she likes me (I'm not talking about smiling, that means nothing to me) I won't approach any woman. I'm not wasting my time anymore. The next woman I approach will be the one who can actually talk to me and not play child-like games.
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Originally Posted by 1orlando
I am.with you, I think when a woman really is interested you will know believe me they will make it crystal clear
what you think a woman that is interested in you is going to do what, drop her clothes and have you take her right there? women are just as shy as men, which is why you have to have some testicles and approach the women if you want one.
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Originally Posted by tofur
You gotta be really careful with that. It isn't that black and white, there is a percentage of women out there that get more reserved and shy around guys they are attracted to. The trick is to be able to recognize that, which comes from either natural ability(some people are amazing at reading others state/emotions) or from experiencing it a bunch of times. But if you aren't looking for it you'll never see it, you'll assume she's not interested and move on, missing out on a woman who was really into you.
very very true, women tend to be very subtle in their body language and most men miss it big time.
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Originally Posted by Liberty2011
Why has it become such a trauma for so many young guys to approach? Know what? No one enjoys it. The difference between you and other guys who do it regularly is that their self-esteem isn't tied to whether or not a stranger wants to date them. It's not a catastrophe if someone says no, because most will!
You want women to approach, you want them to be blatantly obvious that they're interested, well it doesn't work that way. Countless threads recently have talked about women do show interest. But some are not receptive to these little tidbits and instead want to complain that women shouldn't do things the way women do, and cry about how unfair is is. Well, how's that working for your dating life?
actually i do enjoy the approach. its part of who men are. we are the hunters, the providers, the protectors. the women were the gatherers, the nurturers, the cooks, etc. in the end its a game, and if you want a woman you have to play the game.
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Originally Posted by Raena77
Men and women size up each other then second guess themself.
yep, way too often.
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Originally Posted by 49ersfan27
Those men can have those types of women. I don't deal with women who have an entitlement complex.
the only women that have an entitlement complex are those that think EVERYTHING should be done for them. wanting to be approached does not mean she feels entitled.
what you think a woman that is interested in you is going to do what, drop her clothes and have you take her right there? women are just as shy as men, which is why you have to have some testicles and approach the women if you want one.
very very true, women tend to be very subtle in their body language and most men miss it big time.
actually i do enjoy the approach. its part of who men are. we are the hunters, the providers, the protectors. the women were the gatherers, the nurturers, the cooks, etc. in the end its a game, and if you want a woman you have to play the game.
yep, way too often.
the only women that have an entitlement complex are those that think EVERYTHING should be done for them. wanting to be approached does not mean she feels entitled.
Brutal honesty time: I never mentioned anything about a woman dropping her clothes for me Like I've repeated for last 1,000 times on here. I'll do things my way. If you prefer the approach, that's good for you. But it's not my thing. I'm not obligated to approach any woman. Hell, I'm not obligated to even talk to them. I'm fine being single. Besides, I have to focus on getting my business degree. A relationship would hold me back from my goal. I have had some success and have failed. Clear enough?
Brutal honesty time: I never mentioned anything about a woman dropping her clothes for me Like I've repeated for last 1,000 times on here. I'll do things my way. If you prefer the approach, that's good for you. But it's not my thing. I'm not obligated to approach any woman. Hell, I'm not obligated to even talk to them. I'm fine being single. Besides, I have to focus on getting my business degree. A relationship would hold me back from my goal. I have had some success and have failed. Clear enough?
and i am not suggesting that you have to do anything except be alone for the rest of your life. i have said it before and i will say it again, its your life, you do what you want. however when you come on here and make the posts you do, and suggest that you really do want someone in your life, you are going to get advice, and you are going to get prodded to make the approach. so either stop making the posts you do, put with the advice you get, or go away.
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Originally Posted by 49ersfan27
I can take care of myself Raena. Was that an attempt at humor? If so, I'm not laughing.
No offense to you Rbohm, but speak for yourself. YOU'RE a hunter, YOU'RE a provider, and YOU'RE a protector. I'm a man and I'm none of those things. It's who you are. You don't speak for all men. At least not for me.
and i am not suggesting that you have to do anything except be alone for the rest of your life. i have said it before and i will say it again, its your life, you do what you want. however when you come on here and make the posts you do, and suggest that you really do want someone in your life, you are going to get advice, and you are going to get prodded to make the approach. so either stop making the posts you do, put with the advice you get, or go away.
you need a sense of humor, raena is a funny lady.
And with this will be my last post on this thread. I don't have to take your advice or anyone else. If anyone "prods" me to do anything, I'll tell them to knock it off. My sense of humor is fine btw.
And with this will be my last post on this thread. I don't have to take your advice or anyone else. If anyone "prods" me to do anything, I'll tell them to knock it off. My sense of humor is fine btw.
If I were a 49ers fan, my sense of humor would be non-existent after their last three postseasons.
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Like I've repeated for last 1,000 times on here. I'll do things my way. If you prefer the approach, that's good for you. But it's not my thing. I'm not obligated to approach any woman. Hell, I'm not obligated to even talk to them. I'm fine being single. Besides, I have to focus on getting my business degree. A relationship would hold me back from my goal. I have had some success and have failed. Clear enough?
