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Old 08-18-2014, 09:01 AM
 
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Do you really want guys who look at you to approach you? He might be a criminal or creep is it worth the risk? Im told women like to be left alone but want guys to approach. They are happy when single but mad because they dont have a relationship.

And if you dont want to be stared at stay indoors. Going in public means you lose your privacy minus a places like restrooms.

But like some people hear have said: look but dont bother.
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Old 08-19-2014, 05:56 AM
 
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A lot of men just don't know what to say beyond a simple Hi or Hello
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Old 08-19-2014, 09:43 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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A lot of men need to have a reason to approach, they need to have some kind of indication that they stand a chance otherwise they feel it is pointless to go for the approach, if they think that they stand no chance then why even waste their time and risk the embarrassment?
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Old 08-19-2014, 10:14 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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A lot of men need to have a reason to approach, they need to have some kind of indication that they stand a chance otherwise they feel it is pointless to go for the approach, if they think that they stand no chance then why even waste their time and risk the embarrassment?
This basically.
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Old 08-19-2014, 10:16 AM
 
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A lot of men need to have a reason to approach, they need to have some kind of indication that they stand a chance otherwise they feel it is pointless to go for the approach, if they think that they stand no chance then why even waste their time and risk the embarrassment?
Exactly.
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Old 08-19-2014, 10:28 AM
 
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A lot of men need to have a reason to approach, they need to have some kind of indication that they stand a chance otherwise they feel it is pointless to go for the approach, if they think that they stand no chance then why even waste their time and risk the embarrassment?
This. Make it clear that you want us to approach.
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Old 08-19-2014, 10:34 AM
 
Location: Jupiter
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A lot of men need to have a reason to approach, they need to have some kind of indication that they stand a chance otherwise they feel it is pointless to go for the approach, if they think that they stand no chance then why even waste their time and risk the embarrassment?
Most women don't want to be approached. They're in public looking mean and combative or on their cell phones. Women want to be left alone then I'll leave them alone and not waste my time.
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Old 08-19-2014, 10:34 AM
 
Location: Canada
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A lot of men need to have a reason to approach, they need to have some kind of indication that they stand a chance otherwise they feel it is pointless to go for the approach, if they think that they stand no chance then why even waste their time and risk the embarrassment?
So will you approach the girl giving you signals to approach, even when she's not the one you set your sights on, that one who isn't giving you signals?
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Old 08-19-2014, 10:41 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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This. Make it clear that you want us to approach.
I think there needs to be a system of signal flags. They could be small enough to be rolled up and carried in a purse.
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Old 08-19-2014, 10:45 AM
 
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So will you approach the girl giving you signals to approach, even when she's not the one you set your sights on, that one who isn't giving you signals?
Depends. If she's decent looking then yes. If not then no. Just like women don't have to date a guy just because he approaches her. You don't have to like everybody and vice versa.
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