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Stop giving these guys false hope. Hot women want hot men. Let's start being realistic here. If I think a woman is out of my league, 9 times out of 10 I'm right. Therefore, I won't waste my time and approach her when I know rejection is imminent.
When a woman is somewhat in my ball-park (average or somewhat below) my odds are maybe 1 in 10. These odds have been tested in real life.
When she is actually truly out of my league (very cute or hot), it's more like 1 out of 10,000 maybe.
again, its not the guy himself, its the approach he uses. women want to be approached, but they dont want to be approached like a meat buyer checking out a side of beef.
If only they have written a manual on how to approach women without being a creep.
That is how it's done. If you're average or below, or short, you get yourself some charisma, some cachet.
I really hate when avg looking dudes complain that they can't get a hot girlfriend
Honestly, it drives me nuts because it's just incredibly hypocritical...it's okay for you to only want a hot woman but it's not okay for hot women to want a hot man? It makes zero sense
It's only a reasonable complaint when men say that they can't get a woman who everybody would agree is about the same league (not that every woman will like every man in the same "league" but you should have a decent success percentage)
1 times out 10? That's pretty good odds....just saying. lol
right?!? If I told a guy that all he had to do was nut up and be friendly with the attractive women around him, and 1 out of 10 (or even 1 out of 20) will be interested in taking things further, wouldn't that be worth it?!?! You only need one to like you at a time. Who the heck cares if you get rejected, you are the only one who makes that into something. You can just as easily let the event pass right on by you, no latching onto it and making it into this mental beast. Think "Next!!" and move on the the next woman.
Like seriously, would you rather not nut up and be guaranteed to be alone, without an attractive mate? Beacuse that's the alternative. You only live once. I for one firmly believe life is too short to go without the love and company of a beautiful woman. Do whatever you have to do to make it happen, no excuses.
I really hate when avg looking dudes complain that they can't get a hot girlfriend
Honestly, it drives me nuts because it's just incredibly hypocritical...it's okay for you to only want a hot woman but it's not okay for hot women to want a hot man? It makes zero sense
It's only a reasonable complaint when men say that they can't get a woman who everybody would agree is about the same league (not that every woman will like every man in the same "league" but you should have a decent success percentage)
The worst part about average looking dudes complaining like that is that there is a TON of evidence all around them that looks aren't the deciding factor!! Just open your eyes, average dudes are with good looking women all over the place.
For me my biggest obstacle is meeting women since I don't really have a social circle, mainly the dog park or bars have been my only place for meeting women
right?!? If I told a guy that all he had to do was nut up and be friendly with the attractive women around him, and 1 out of 10 (or even 1 out of 20) will be interested in taking things further, wouldn't that be worth it?!?! You only need one to like you at a time. Who the heck cares if you get rejected, you are the only one who makes that into something. You can just as easily let the event pass right on by you, no latching onto it and making it into this mental beast. Think "Next!!" and move on the the next woman.
Like seriously, would you rather not nut up and be guaranteed to be alone, without an attractive mate? Beacuse that's the alternative. You only live once. I for one firmly believe life is too short to go without the love and company of a beautiful woman. Do whatever you have to do to make it happen, no excuses.
Is being alone really that bad for some people? It never ceases to amaze me how people on here treat it as a fate worse than death. Besides it's not like a guy doesn't have friends and family.
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