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Old 07-23-2014, 07:24 PM
 
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Some man stares at you but won't approach you because they are already in a relationship. That happened twice to me and I was shocked when I found out that one of these men was engaged and the other had a girlfriend. Apparently, some men like to window shop even if they already have a partner/girlfriend. It's in their nature. It's another man who gave me that explanation. Not sure how valid it is.
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Old 07-23-2014, 10:15 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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If you're not showing any interest, why should he approach you?
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Old 07-24-2014, 04:37 AM
 
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If you're not showing any interest, why should he approach you?
This x100. Why should a man go where he is clearly not wanted? Every time I say this other posters around here act like I am a fool. Showing interest means you would like to be approached conversely not showing interest means you wish to be left alone. A very simple concept yet many around here refuse to grasp it.
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Old 07-24-2014, 05:01 AM
 
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Some man stares at you but won't approach you because they are already in a relationship. That happened twice to me and I was shocked when I found out that one of these men was engaged and the other had a girlfriend. Apparently, some men like to window shop even if they already have a partner/girlfriend. It's in their nature. It's another man who gave me that explanation. Not sure how valid it is.
These men are sizing you up to see if they can get you between the sheets. I had a friend like this. He was getting married and still banged a different woman every night. They lined up to be notches on his bedpost. His fiancé knew and wouldn't leave him.
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Old 07-24-2014, 08:38 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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I'm always noticed men staring, but never approach is it because I look away and act aloof? I also noticed married men looking, but why do they want me look at them and smile and they think they still have it going on. One time this guy was looking at me and I looked up at him and then he turned away quickly like he was embarrassed because he was looking. Do some men don't like getting caught staring?
Quite simple, they might be taken already weather married or in a ltr, they might think the woman they are looking at is goofy looking (although this is unlikely to be a reason) or they like what they see but think that they don't stand a chance with what they see because she is probably already taken or she doesn't find them.attractive and since the feeling isn't mutual then rejection is certain to happen so why take a chance and risk the embarrassment in front of other people? Therefore they rather enjoy the view from a safe distance

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Old 07-24-2014, 09:55 AM
 
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Some man stares at you but won't approach you because they are already in a relationship. That happened twice to me and I was shocked when I found out that one of these men was engaged and the other had a girlfriend. Apparently, some men like to window shop even if they already have a partner/girlfriend. It's in their nature. It's another man who gave me that explanation. Not sure how valid it is.
Change it to all men and you'd be correct. Guys look, no matter how hot the woman they're with. It doesn't mean anything other than they are, in fact, a man. Now, if they stopped looking, there's something weird going on.
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Old 07-24-2014, 12:21 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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Because of the "B**** face"

Lol.
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Old 07-24-2014, 12:26 PM
 
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If you're not showing any interest, why should he approach you?
Because she looks cool, and has a nice vibe? Do you always need a signal to approach? I'll talk to any woman who's to my liking.
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Old 07-24-2014, 12:28 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Because of the "B**** face"

Lol.
No man is gonna approach a woman who has a mean, b***hy, combative look on her face.
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Old 07-24-2014, 12:30 PM
 
Location: Vail, CO
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No man is gonna approach a woman who has a mean, b***hy, combative look on her face.
I'm a dude, but in recent years I've tried really hard to overcome the "pissed off look"

I'm really not, I'm just busy and thinking about what I'm doing at that moment. Most women think I'm stuck up or a jerk.
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