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Old 05-01-2013, 06:16 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Why do most of the women on here feel ENTITLED to a friendship with a man? Men aren't entitled to a woman's body, right? So why are most of the women here ENTITLED to a friendship with a man? If he doesn't want to be friends with her, that is his right.

It's ok, I'm donating my body to womenkind. They're entitled to it.
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Old 05-01-2013, 06:27 PM
 
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Why do most of the women on here feel ENTITLED to a friendship with a man? Men aren't entitled to a woman's body, right? So why are most of the women here ENTITLED to a friendship with a man? If he doesn't want to be friends with her, that is his right.
One of the few reasonable statements e'er expressed in this thread.
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Old 05-01-2013, 07:29 PM
 
Location: Alexandria, VA
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Does this happen to anyone else? A girl will reject me then she'll still talk to me even months later. I've had some girls that have rejected me go out of their way to talk to me again, so I'm not initiating anything this time around.

If a girl rejects me I want her to leave me alone and I want nothing to do with her. Anyone agree?
God I hate that!!!! In my book, the friendzone doesn't exist; it's the all-or-nothing-zone.

There was a girl that rejected me back in the olden days when I was 20. She said she could never be with me, but that she thought of me like a brother and wanted to be friends. It took me months to get rid of her.

Then there was a girl I went on a date with in college. I really liked her, but she said she didn't feel a connection with me. She wouldn't date me, but loved to rattle on about fooling around with other guys. I had to tell her to hit the bricks. If that's not the ultimate punch in the face I don't know what is.
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Old 05-02-2013, 04:35 PM
 
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I find the whole mentality of "we can't be friends if I reject you" to be complete nonsense. I am still friends with women who have rejected me in the past; the manner of how they rejected me holds more weight on if I still want to maintain a friendship than the actual rejection.

Rejection is something that you just can't take personally, though I know just how hard it can be at times. If she is respectful when she turns me down, is understanding and is honest, more than likely I would like to stay friends with her. Same with women I turn down; Me turning someone down for a romantic relationship doesn't mean that I want to stop hanging out with them, it simply means that I don't see them in a romantic light. The only way I'll be upset with someone is if I get strung along, or if they disrespect me or take advantage of me, in which case, they weren't really good friends at all.

And also, I don't believe in the "friends zone," but I am too lazy to go into a detailed explanation as to why I don't subscribe to that theory.
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Old 05-02-2013, 04:41 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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I find the whole mentality of "we can't be friends if I reject you" to be complete nonsense. I am still friends with women who have rejected me in the past; the manner of how they rejected me holds more weight on if I still want to maintain a friendship than the actual rejection.

Rejection is something that you just can't take personally, though I know just how hard it can be at times. If she is respectful when she turns me down, is understanding and is honest, more than likely I would like to stay friends with her. Same with women I turn down; Me turning someone down for a romantic relationship doesn't mean that I want to stop hanging out with them, it simply means that I don't see them in a romantic light. The only way I'll be upset with someone is if I get strung along, or if they disrespect me or take advantage of me, in which case, they weren't really good friends at all.

And also, I don't believe in the "friends zone," but I am too lazy to go into a detailed explanation as to why I don't subscribe to that theory.

I don't see why people care so much about getting rejected. It is beyond me.
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Old 05-02-2013, 04:43 PM
 
Location: Illinois
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does this happen to anyone else? A girl will reject me then she'll still talk to me even months later. I've had some girls that have rejected me go out of their way to talk to me again, so i'm not initiating anything this time around.

If a girl rejects me i want her to leave me alone and i want nothing to do with her. Anyone agree?
you are empowering them, you gave them a feeling,
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Old 05-05-2013, 01:53 AM
 
Location: Los Angeles, CA
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Does this happen to anyone else? A girl will reject me then she'll still talk to me even months later. I've had some girls that have rejected me go out of their way to talk to me again, so I'm not initiating anything this time around.

If a girl rejects me I want her to leave me alone and I want nothing to do with her. Anyone agree?
Taking things way too seriously. Might have been something she liked about you but, didn't think you were the one.
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Old 05-05-2013, 08:19 AM
 
Location: :~)
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Consider her age. She likes the attention. She also likes the fact that you desire her.
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Old 05-05-2013, 08:45 AM
 
Location: Coastal Mid-Atlantic
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Does this happen to anyone else? A girl will reject me then she'll still talk to me even months later. I've had some girls that have rejected me go out of their way to talk to me again, so I'm not initiating anything this time around.

If a girl rejects me I want her to leave me alone and I want nothing to do with her. Anyone agree?
She doesnt seem to be getting the attention she wants. She knows YOU will give her some attention, wanting or not. I had this happen to me years ago. I later ran into her in the store. This time I talked my way into her panties. I got what I wanted and dumped her flat. Revenge is good.
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Old 05-08-2013, 11:39 PM
 
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She doesnt seem to be getting the attention she wants. She knows YOU will give her some attention, wanting or not. I had this happen to me years ago. I later ran into her in the store. This time I talked my way into her panties. I got what I wanted and dumped her flat. Revenge is good.
How did you "talk you way into her panties"?
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