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So what do you do after you've "gotten" the girl? Live falsely forever, making sure you mete out attention at just the "right" rate and in just the "right" way and installing negs perfectly at intervals, forever?
I sure as hell would not want to have to live my life that way in order to keep someone near me. Sounds difficult, and very sad. That person will never love you for who you are. Sad and lonely way to live, IMO.
Eventually you will do this naturally, so you don't have to think about it anymore. The reason PUA is needed is because dating skills do not come naturally to everyone. That is nature way of telling you that you should not get kids or have sex. However, why not learning what people successful with women are doing?
I have a girlfriend, and I don't have to think about it anymore. It comes naturally.
BTW: I don't believe in negs outside the bar scene. Negs are there to bring attention to you in a competitive dating field. It is not needed in a relationship.
The funny thing is that while pretty much all women who have heard about PUA, hate PUA. They still date, and often marry people who have read PUA.
Well, I'm just one person (married person) and my husband thinks PUA is retarded. Then again, he thinks most men on the Internet are retarded as well. Perhaps it's a generational thing since he's in his 40s.
PUA absolutely works, but thats because they are based on true understanding of male/female dynamics. It has helped thousands of guys get laid and have control over their sex lives. Its mostly done by manipulation and understanding how to get woman into bed. I personaly have limited knowledge of PUA, because some of their concepts like memorizing one liners or making up stories to tell, prescripting jokes, or negging seem entirely too cheesy and not worth the effort. There are benefits to it though, so I suppose everyone has to make this decision for themselves. For example, nerdy guys who have never been laid, are now going out 4 nights a week and talking to 10 women a night.
Even if they didnt learn anything from PUA or used a single technique taught, their chances of bedding a girl are immensly higher than when they never went out or were too affraid to talk to women and never approached them. Its pretty much only good for getting a woman into your bed, and its succesful at it, but anything beyond that you are on your own. If youre looking to get laid as much as you can and date around, it seems like you could benefit. If youre looking for marraiage, it wont be of much help. I wouldnt spend a penny on it, personaly but to each his own.
Yup. It simply helps guys get laid. There has been tons of male virgins who have used PUA and know can get sex on command when before all they could do was sit at home and masturbate
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