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I just feel more alone in the world even when I'm with a bunch of friends that care about me. I can't seem to enjoy anything but think about that person and how I can't be with them. And yes, nothing can cure it but time. Eventually the pain will turn into indifference, and even if a little something is still there, it won't bug you as much.
To whomever had the good grace to rep me & answer my query in their rep, while I truly appreciate the good words, from now on, I will see them every time I get reps & it will remind me of this moment and these past couple of days.
Just saying. Sometimes we have to think about what we write in a rep, especially when it's something emotional like this.
Thanks for the rep, again. I guess I just mean I wish you posted in the thread instead of repping me with the words. But thanks for the rep!
I will never forget my last heartbreak because three years later it burns. He was someone I knew many years ago, we reconnected then he told me he didn't want a relationship (I layer found out he meant WITH ME). I cried for several months straight, my heart literally felt like it was crashing, I started getting severe panic attacks. I was taking yoga and it helped a bit but afterwards I would cry uncontrollably. I was so angry I wanted to hurt other men because of what he did to me. I was a mess.
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Love yourself. If you truly love yourself, things are not as bad. It's the dependency that gets us, but if you learn to depend on yourself first and foremost, others are powerless to hurt you emotionally.
Like I had lost a very important part of me...a feeling that I had failed massively and utterly, wondering what exactly I had done wrong, and why I had lost that person's love In the depths of despair, heartbroken, and feeling totally lost and alone..."all out of love, so lost without you", just like in the Air Supply song.
The lyrics in the song below describe it well, although it is from the female perspective of course...
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I actually get chest pain. Like the left side of my chest feels achingly hollow.
I hate that feeling. I hate that there is a physical feeling that goes along with it.
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