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It depends. There are serial cheaters and there are one time cheaters. There are those who are overcome with guilt and there are those that feel no guilt whatsoever.
you know how that saying goes.
do you guys believe it? also I would like you guys to share personal experiences.
were you at cheater ? did you get cheated on?
What is your thought .
People don't tend to change very much after they turn 20. So if it was done in high school, then he may never cheat again.
But if it is done later, then I don't think so. To cheat you either must have loose morals, or unable to control yourself. Neither is something that will change by getting caught. If a person cheat, then break off the relationship, because they will keep doing it.
I don't think all blanket statements and stereotypes are ever fully true. One of the best drivers I know is Asian
But overall, no I do think people can change. Are there sleezes who don't? You bet. I think it also depends on a situation. If you are flat-out drunk and you cheat, it's different from just cheating completely sober, because things you regret sometimes happen when you're not in your right mind. I am not saying that makes it any better, but I've known people who would NEVER cheat but I've seen them drunk and the way they act truly changes completely. I was cheated on when I was 15 and in a relationship with a 16 year old. I thought he was a complete sleeze. Well, he's been in a steady relationship for 5 years with the same girl now and from what I've heard that has never occurred. I think people do a lot of dumb things as teenagers as well but then again there's a difference between a teen cheating in a 5 month relationship then in a marriage of course.
It's kind of subjective really. But personally, I don't think every person who cheats once will cheat again.
I am a cheater , I've cheated pretty much all the relationships I ever been in , long term short term What ever, some I got caught. Some never knew. I came to a conclusion that I have a problem . Insecurity? Identity issue ? Or I'm just a plain bad person .. I Dont know.
I Do however feel really bad after it and promise my self never to repeat , but I find my self breaking them more then I promise . Why am I doing this ? I really want to stop this nasty habit . It has ruined my relationships physically and mentally. It feels like I can never stay true to one women and have a happy ending .
I feel scared that this habit is gonna mess up my head and lead me into a very sad sad road .
not the case for all.
former cheater here that has zero interest in doing so again. immaturity had much to do with my experiences. temptation was all around me and i wanted to experience it all regardless of my circumstance.
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