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You accidentally walked into his/her conversation they're having with a friend and they started describing how much of a nice and understanding person you are (and other good qualities) but isn't sure if he/she wants to age with you. Overall they think of you as a nice gf/bf.
I didn't mean to get into my gf's conversation but that's everything I heard. It's really the last part that crushed me. She said it clearly ''Don't think I feel the same but don't know how to tell him'' etc... ''Don't wanna hurt him''. At this point I quietly walked away and left. I proceed on talking a long walk.
It would be understandable if we were teenagers dating for 1-6 months but we've been together for 4 years and our ages are 27 and 26.
As much as it hurts me and I really don't want to, I think I'm going to break up. I haven't been feeling well this hearing all this. I thought of her as much more than a nice gf. The only reason I wasn't directly about it (even thought it's been on my mind for a long while) is because she wouldn't drop any signs of feeling the same. I didn't want she was feeling then and really thought she was just nervous like any person gets when a relationship progresses. Now I know that's not the case.
You accidentally walked into his/her conversation they're having with a friend and they started describing how much of a nice and understanding person you are (and other good qualities) but isn't sure if he/she wants to age with you. Overall they think of you as a nice gf/bf.
I didn't mean to get into my gf's conversation but that's everything I heard. It's really the last part that crushed me. She said it clearly ''Don't think I feel the same but don't know how to tell him'' etc... ''Don't wanna hurt him''. At this point I quietly walked away and left. I proceed on talking a long walk.
It would be understandable if we were teenagers dating for 1-6 months but we've been together for 4 years and our ages are 27 and 26.
As much as it hurts me and I really don't want to, I think I'm going to break up. I haven't been feeling well this hearing all this. I thought of her as much more than a nice gf. The only reason I wasn't directly about it (even thought it's been on my mind for a long while) is because she wouldn't drop any signs of feeling the same. I didn't want she was feeling then and really thought she was just nervous like any person gets when a relationship progresses. Now I know that's not the case.
I am so sorry you have to go through this. It looks like your girlfriend has some doubts about this relationship. Have a conversation with her, don't give up just yet.
I know. I just didn't want to seem as if I were pressuring her. I assumed she was just nervous.
Well, the past is past.
You certainly need to have the discussion now
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