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Old 05-13-2013, 12:35 PM
 
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All right you chickens, use some imagination! What would it really be like? If porn truly had no effect on your life, you would never watch it, so don't give me that BS*.

Old dudes, can you help me out, here? Was there ever a time in your boyhood when you had seen nothing beyond the penney's catalog? How did porn change you?

 
Old 05-13-2013, 12:37 PM
 
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As a female who watches porn, I don't think my life would be much different. I'd have 15 minutes of my time every couple of days back, but that's about it.
 
Old 05-13-2013, 12:39 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Not sure what the heck you are looking for ... if we didn't have porn to masturbate to, we'd masturbate to the JC Penneys bra section or National Geographics.

It's not complicated.
 
Old 05-13-2013, 12:39 PM
 
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All right you chickens, use some imagination! What would it really be like? If porn truly had no effect on your life, you would never watch it, so don't give me that BS*.

Old dudes, can you help me out, here? Was there ever a time in your boyhood when you had seen nothing beyond the penney's catalog? How did porn change you?
I already told you my view. I'm honestly not sure what type of answer you're looking for?
 
Old 05-13-2013, 12:40 PM
 
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I'd invent porn, so men who couldn't get women for any reason at least had an easier time to rub one out.
 
Old 05-13-2013, 12:41 PM
 
Location: NY
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I do not currently watch porn.

So I suppose it has not had a profound enough effect on my life to cause me to want to watch it.

Sure young boys/men do seek out pictures, videos, or whatever as a way to stimulate arousal. However, it seems the OP may be trying to find out whether porn plays a more integral part in the lives of all men in general. I do not think such a generalization can be made.
 
Old 05-13-2013, 12:56 PM
 
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I'm honestly not sure what type of answer you're looking for?
Well, i was trying to guess what it would be like, but then I thought why not just ask the experts? Real life men .

I'm pretty sure my guesses will be 100% wrong, but I suppose I could type some up so you could see what kinds of lines I was thinking along.

For example, guys in another thread were saying that they picture most attractive women they meet naked. Would that be feasible, without porn? Maybe only after you had had a lot of experience? I know I have been startled each time I saw a new type or color of bewbies, for example. Not what I would have pictured, at all. Would you still try?

Same goes with imagining what random women would be like in bed. Would you still do it, if you had only seen your lovers in bed? (And do you have the lights on?)

I've often experienced men having obsessive curiousity about this or that weird sexual practice they saw in porn. Before the internet, I never heard this from men I know. Except the one guy who was a masochist. Would this be different for you?

How is masturbating different, with and without porn? Is it hard to stay hard without something visual, in your imagination or in front of you? I can see how holding a picture in your mind, if you need that, would be difficult.

So those are some of my questions. I could probably come up with a dozen more, and maybe other women here can pitch in .
 
Old 05-13-2013, 01:01 PM
 
Location: TX
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Since I don't watch it, I think my life would be about the same. It's true that I used to watch it when I was single and when I was a teenager, and I honestly don't get the whole "Gotta learn them skills!" argument, lol. Everything useful that I've learned I've learned from personal experiences. And the first time I had sex I was given a thousand compliments (and it wasn't her first time, BTW). Really, the best "skills" are selflessness and openness in communication. Oh yeah, and good health (stamina, etc.). And pornography can't help a guy there.
 
Old 05-13-2013, 01:37 PM
 
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I love porn and I'm a female. It's been educational. I'd say without it I wouldn't be as enlightened to different ways to do things...
 
Old 05-13-2013, 01:39 PM
 
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That's so funny to think that men would believe they can learn sexual skills from porn! Porn is rarely about what women like in bed .
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