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Old 05-13-2013, 11:52 AM
 
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...if you had never seen a woman naked who was not your lover, or maybe at a group skinny-dipping if you do that sort of thing?

...if you had never seen two people having sex?


I am not advocating this! But I, and I think many women, have trouble understanding what porn is to men, and answers to this might help me, and maybe us, understand.

And I am trusting you guys to Mod cut: language refrain from saying that you would invent porn and make a bajillion dollars .

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Old 05-13-2013, 11:54 AM
 
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Porn is to men what porn is to women, they either like it or they don't but either way it does not interfere with their real lives in the real world with real humans.
 
Old 05-13-2013, 11:55 AM
 
Location: Pa
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If people never seen people have sex then we all would be blind?
 
Old 05-13-2013, 11:58 AM
 
Location: USA
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Originally Posted by NilaJones View Post
...if you had never seen a woman naked who was not your mother, or maybe at a group skinny-dipping if you do that sort of thing?

...if you had never seen two people having sex?


I am not advocating this! But I, and I think many women, have trouble understanding what porn is to men, and answers to this might help me, and maybe us, understand.

And I am trusting you guys to Snip. refrain from saying that you would invent porn and make a bajillion dollars .
Are you saying that watching porn has no affect on you?

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Old 05-13-2013, 11:59 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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This really isn't answerable, because porn has pretty much always existed, going back to erotic paintings and carvings on cave walls, and always will. As long as the human body exists and sex exists, people are going to see it and attempt to create images of it, whether with a stick or with an iphone. A world without porn would be a world without sex and therefore quite literally a world without humanity.

P.S. Lots of women like porn. Lots. Look at the popularity of 50 Shades Of Gray.
 
Old 05-13-2013, 12:03 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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This really isn't answerable, because porn has pretty much always existed, going back to erotic paintings and carvings on cave walls, and always will. As long as the human body exists and sex exists, people are going to see it and attempt to create images of it, whether with a stick or with an iphone. A world without porn would be a world without sex and therefore quite literally a world without humanity.

P.S. Lots of women like porn. Lots. Look at the popularity of 50 Shades Of Gray.
Yeah, there's always been porn, but I have to think that the the sheer amount of it has a lot more of an effect on people than in days of yore. Even as recently as 15-20 years ago, people had to make an effort to find porn, and what was out there wasn't extreme, for the most part. They had to go rent a dirty movie, or they'd have a stack of Penthouses in the garage. Now there's literally hours and hours of hardcore stuff at their fingertips. I doubt that 50 years ago you'd have people who made porn part of their daily routine, to the extent where many men would say "all men look at porn, and if you don't like it then get out" like they do on this forum.
 
Old 05-13-2013, 12:05 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Kama Sutra art.
 
Old 05-13-2013, 12:06 PM
 
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Nothing would be different except that I wouldn't be watching porn. I wouldn't automatically be more attractive to women than what I am now. Same job, same responsibilities, same level of interest from women. People make porn out to be more important than it really is.
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Originally Posted by Plzeň View Post
This really isn't answerable, because porn has pretty much always existed, going back to erotic paintings and carvings on cave walls, and always will. As long as the human body exists and sex exists, people are going to see it and attempt to create images of it, whether with a stick or with an iphone. A world without porn would be a world without sex and therefore quite literally a world without humanity.

P.S. Lots of women like porn. Lots. Look at the popularity of 50 Shades Of Gray.
Rule 35 of the internet:
If there is no porn of it, it will be made.
 
Old 05-13-2013, 12:09 PM
 
Location: Londonderry, NH
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I learned some new techniques. I would rather the kids and their parents watched porn than some war based video game or hyper violent movie. "Make love, not war" is still a good idea.
 
Old 05-13-2013, 12:12 PM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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My life wouldn't change in any significant or meaningful way. I might be slightly more naive, though.
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