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No, I wouldn't wait till marriage even if he was a virgin. First, I'm an atheist and so don't believe in that whole ''Save yourself till your wedding day otherwise you're committing a sin and second, we wouldn't be compatible. I feel sex is important for all long term relationships. What's the point if I have to wait till our wedding day in order to feel him???
Now if the guy wanted to take some time (just like I do... I would be unwilling to do it on several dates later) and either wasn't ready or is indeed a virgin, ok I don't have no problem with that. Even better for me. Who needs men that sleep around anyway? The last thing I need is worrying about catching an STD or him cheating on me in the future.
Say your partner is not a virgin, but wants you to wait until marriage for sex. Would you wait that long? Would it be different for you if your partner was a virgin and wanted to wait until marriage?
What if they told you they wanted to wait until 3-6 months for sex before they feel comfortable with it? Does it matter in that case if they are a virgin or non-virgin?
For me, I wouldn't wait until marriage for sex but if I did I absolutely wouldn't wait for a non-virgin. Same with waiting 3 months. I could wait 3 months for a virgin, but I would never do it for a non-virgin.
I would never be so reckless to bind myself legally to someone before I even knew if we were sexually compatible. I see sex as a natural, healthy, joyful part of life. I would have to suspect anyone who felt the need to "wait" for months and months, whatever the reason, did not share that attitude. I would not want to be with such a person.
I feel sex is important for all long term relationships.
And short term relationships. And, well....life.
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Originally Posted by RogersParkGuy
I would never be so reckless to bind myself legally to someone before I even knew if we were sexually compatible. I see sex as a natural, healthy, joyful part of life. I would have to suspect anyone who felt the need to "wait" for months and months, whatever the reason, did not share that attitude. I would not want to be with such a person.
Exactly.
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