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Old 05-17-2013, 11:03 AM
 
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Interesting how all these girls complain about only meeting guys who are "just looking for sex" and then they freak out at a virgin and don't want to date him. Am I missin' something here?
Some people simply aren't happy unless they are pointing fingers at others. Leave em to it.
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Old 05-17-2013, 11:05 AM
 
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Interesting how all these girls complain about only meeting guys who are "just looking for sex" and then they freak out at a virgin and don't want to date him. Am I missin' something here?
Maybe those guys looking for sex are virgins. J/K
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Old 05-17-2013, 11:22 AM
 
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Having a preference for experience is not 'freaking out'.

'Just looking for sex' is not the only thing that leads to experience.

I would not date someone who had never been deeply in love before -- that would be even more problematic than a virgin.
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Old 05-17-2013, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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Interesting how all these girls complain about only meeting guys who are "just looking for sex" and then they freak out at a virgin and don't want to date him. Am I missin' something here?
Yes, you're apparently missing the fact that "only looking for sex" and "has never had sex" are equally undesirable qualities among most adults. There is something in the middle called "looking for a relationship that includes good sex," which is where most people fall.
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Old 05-17-2013, 11:42 AM
 
Location: the ass of nowhere (the midwest)
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Yes, you're apparently missing the fact that "only looking for sex" and "has never had sex" are equally undesirable qualities among most adults. There is something in the middle called "looking for a relationship that includes good sex," which is where most people fall.
But then these middle-grounders fall into the "he's just average/boring/regular guy" category.
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Old 05-17-2013, 11:48 AM
 
Location: the ass of nowhere (the midwest)
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Having a preference for experience is not 'freaking out'.

'Just looking for sex' is not the only thing that leads to experience.

I would not date someone who had never been deeply in love before -- that would be even more problematic than a virgin.
So it's kind of like when you were fresh out of school/training and your applying to jobs but they reject because they all want 1-3 years of experience. 1-3 years of work experience, sexual experience, I guess this stuff is supposed to just magically appear on our life résumés (or at least go unspoken of how we went about obtaining them).
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Old 05-17-2013, 11:59 AM
 
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I am a virgin, and I dated a guy who was 32 and said he was a virgin. However, to this day I am not sure if he was lying or telling the truth...Sigh! Yes, I would date another virgin though!
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Old 05-17-2013, 11:59 AM
 
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So it's kind of like when you were fresh out of school/training and your applying to jobs but they reject because they all want 1-3 years of experience. 1-3 years of work experience, sexual experience, I guess this stuff is supposed to just magically appear on our life résumés (or at least go unspoken of how we went about obtaining them).
No, unlike work, you are supposed to obtain them with someone who is approximately at your experience level.

Fall in love with girl or boy your age and explore together .
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Old 05-17-2013, 12:03 PM
 
Location: Gotham
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I would not date someone who had never been deeply in love before.
What does it matter if the person you date has ever been in love before?
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Old 05-17-2013, 12:03 PM
 
Location: SF CA, USA
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No, unlike work, you are supposed to obtain them with someone who is approximately at your experience level.

Fall in love with girl or boy your age and explore together .
Sometimes this doesn't happen organically - there are plenty of people out there for whom high school and college were a nightmare/too busy to develop intimate relationships. Which is why barring STDS, your sexual history is your sexual history. There's no need to tell anyone that you are a virgin.
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