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View Poll Results: Would you date a 30 year old virgin?
Yes 86 58.50%
No 61 41.50%
Voters: 147. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 02-26-2014, 08:10 AM
 
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Say he's a virgin not for religious reasons but just because he hasn't had much luck with women. Would you still date him?
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Old 02-26-2014, 08:20 AM
 
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Nope, I like my men seasoned with experience. If you can't get laid by the time you're 30 then there's something wrong with you.
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Old 02-26-2014, 08:28 AM
 
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nope, i like my men seasoned with experience. If you can't get laid by the time you're 30 then there's something wrong with you.

hahahaha!!!!!
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Old 02-26-2014, 08:32 AM
 
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His virginity wouldn't be an issue (nothing more tedious then men who had wild past) but if he's actually ok with himself overall. If he just hasn't found the right person, which is why he hasn't gotten lucky and we're dating ok no problem. I've only been with 1 man in my life and sometimes I feel like a virgin too. 1 vs 0, I don't think that's too much of a difference.

I guess by logic, the inexperienced or sexually reserved people do want someone with a very low history too while a very experienced woman would want her counterpart. The less the better.

So yes to that question.
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Old 02-26-2014, 08:34 AM
 
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Nope, I like my men seasoned with experience. If you can't get laid by the time you're 30 then there's something wrong with you.
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hahahaha!!!!!
This is pretty much the world in a nutshell. If you're behind the pack, people are either calling you a loser or laughing at you. Granted, not everybody is going to be as blunt as Djuna, but 95% of women share her view if they wouldn't put it so candidly.

I'm not a lady. But, YES I'd date a FORTY year old virgin if she were a woman. Nobody can ever tell what circumstances made you a virgin, and even if they were for a lack of social skill, that doesn't take away from the fact that person might be a great, loyal, trustworthy person.
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Old 02-26-2014, 08:39 AM
 
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Say he's a virgin not for religious reasons but just because he hasn't had much luck with women. Would you still date him?

If you would turn off the neon sign that says "I'm a Virgin and I'm 30", no one else would know that you are a virgin.

Everyone was a virgin at one time and to me it is not the stigma that is proposed here on this forum.
Having a partner who is experienced sexually is fine but sometimes it is fun to learn, explore and experience things for the first time together.
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Old 02-26-2014, 08:39 AM
 
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I wonder if this were 2 separate polls, one for men and one for women, what the results would be.
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Old 02-26-2014, 08:40 AM
 
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This is pretty much the world in a nutshell. If you're behind the pack, people are either calling you a loser or laughing at you. Granted, not everybody is going to be as blunt as Djuna, but 95% of women share her view if they wouldn't put it so candidly.

I'm not a lady. But, YES I'd date a FORTY year old virgin if she were a woman. Nobody can ever tell what circumstances made you a virgin, and even if they were for a lack of social skill, that doesn't take away from the fact that person might be a great, loyal, trustworthy person.

Very true. Women evaluate a man's desirability , in part, by how he has been received by other women. If that man has never had a woman be sexually receptive to him, it tells the woman that other women don't find him desirable, and it will be an automatic turnoff for most women.

Djuna basically said as much in her reply.
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Old 02-26-2014, 08:42 AM
 
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Very true. Women evaluate a man's desirability , in part, by how he has been received by other women. If that man has never had a woman be sexually receptive to him, it tells the woman that other women don't find him desirable, and it will be an automatic turnoff for most women.
Or it says he is a man of true character that has waited for the right woman- which can be a huge turn on.
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Old 02-26-2014, 08:44 AM
 
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This is pretty much the world in a nutshell. If you're behind the pack, people are either calling you a loser or laughing at you. Granted, not everybody is going to be as blunt as Djuna, but 95% of women share her view if they wouldn't put it so candidly.
But not every one of us wants a man with an extensive sexual past that's been on who knows where. Nothing more annoying than a man talking about specific things he's done with his exes.
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