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Old 05-18-2013, 07:16 PM
 
Location: palmsprings
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Originally Posted by Mdbtyhtr View Post
You can't make a ***** a housewife, I have made a living from those that tried. The truth is that you will never know, most won't tell you and a gentleman doesn't ask. Just because she doesn't sleep with your friend, doesn't mean that she is not knocking boots with a no strings deal. Lastly, focus on your own relationships and stop being the jealous and over protective wing man, start your own squadron!

Scott
This ! The first sentence should be a daily quote .

I also make a living out of that. And its good $$

A gentlemen never ask . And never dig the pass .

But if you were there witnessing it . Then its your own judgment call

 
Old 05-18-2013, 07:19 PM
 
Location: palmsprings
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A housewife? What is this, 1952? Please, do tell us how you make your living.
Its a phrase . Calm down. and I'm sure you've heard of it .

Lawyer . Attorney .
 
Old 05-18-2013, 07:22 PM
 
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Lets say you met a girl who was smart, funny, and what most people would consider relatively attractive. Would you get into a relationship with her if she told you that she had sex with a lot of guys like five years ago? She doesnt sleep around anymore. Would the past be the past, or would it be too much to deal with still?
Her past intimate relationships are her business, not mine, and so it's not for me to judge her. I don't think I'd have a problem with it at all

Just give me a nice, affectionate, caring girl and I'll be 100% happy!
 
Old 05-18-2013, 07:28 PM
 
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Mod cut: orphaned. Or can people change? Isnt a woman more things than her past sexual experiences.

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Old 05-18-2013, 07:29 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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It would hinge upon who she is in the present. Also the man may have an extensive history himself. Many men do. There should not be a double standard or judgment . With any potential relationship, proceed slowly and get to know the other person before hopping into bed. People have histories, many different ones.
 
Old 05-18-2013, 07:30 PM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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Mod cut: Orphaned. Or can people change? Isnt a woman more things than her past sexual experiences.
People can change in my opinion. But for some men, there's a limit. My suggestion: lie

Last edited by PJSaturn; 05-30-2013 at 07:45 PM..
 
Old 05-18-2013, 07:31 PM
 
Location: Metro Detroit
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It would hinge upon who she is in the present. Also the man may have an extensive history himself. Many men do. There should not be a double standard or judgment . With any potential relationship, proceed slowly and get to know the other person before hopping into bed. People have histories, many different ones.
The double standard is real. Sorry.
 
Old 05-18-2013, 07:36 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Lets say you met a girl who was smart, funny, and what most people would consider relatively attractive. Would you get into a relationship with her if she told you that she had sex with a lot of guys like five years ago? She doesnt sleep around anymore. Would the past be the past, or would it be too much to deal with still?
You should date her. And if you find she is really great in bed, write a personal thank you not to each and every guy she ever slept with. People don't get good at sex by accident.
 
Old 05-18-2013, 09:48 PM
 
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I am disgusted by some of these comments. If you don't want to date someone because of their history, that is fine. It's your choice. But to talk so vulgarly about someone due to mistakes they have made in the past, mistakes that did not even hurt anyone, is wrong. This woman and others like her deserve to find love. If it isnt with you, there is no reason to treat them like they are less than human. The mysogyny here amazes me. I thought it was 2013.
 
Old 05-18-2013, 09:54 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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The good news is that most men in the year 2013 don't have the mentality you're seeing from a few here. The bad news is that the ones who do don't always make their asshattery as known in person as they do on the internet. If they did, they'd be easy enough for her (and all self-respecting women) to avoid.
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