my man wants to have sexual relations with other women what should I do ? (cheating, family)
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I can tell you his stuff would already be out of my home along with him, that gives him all the freedom he needs to go and have sex with other women and good riddance and good luck.
Why would you voluntarily keep yourself in a mess like that AND why in the world would you feel the need to ask "what should I do" on a public forum. YOU are the ONLY ONE who knows EXACTLY what YOU want to do and no one here knows the entire situation, only what YOU have provided in one small paragraph.
So, in light of the wee bit of information provided the above is what "I, me, myself" would personally do, what YOU DO is UP TO YOU.
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My personal take is this - a man who loves you doesn't want to sleep around.
First, don't lose your self respect. There's nothing wrong with you. If your guy insists that he is going to have sex with other women, tell him to go right ahead. (You don't have to stay with him) If you've followed this forum, you'll see most people have trouble finding willing partners, especially when they want them.
Your guy is probably not so hot and awesome that he will have an easy time getting sex without you as the safety net. And whoever he finds won't be satisfied sharing either.
That doesn't help with the pain you feel now, but hang on to your resolve and cut him off. Be sure to file for child support and regular weekends off plus babysitting services. No way you're going to be left raising some man's child without his paying for it.
My fiance wants to sleep with other women .. he says all men want to do hes.just.being honest.because he loves me and doesnt.want to lose me that he would never.put another women before me ..he just wants.to.have sex with some. Women sometimes.. we have been together for almost.three years.in july and we live together and have a 9 month old.child.what should I do .. and what does.this mean im not good enough any more ?
You know what the right answer is.
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Listen to your gut...... 99 percent of the time it is right....
He's probably not naturally monogamous or even close to being socialized into monogamy, and honest enough to tell you. He's not wrong to want what he wants, or to tell you what he wants (and he may not even be clear on just what form it would take). It's up to you to decide if what he wants is acceptable to you or not. I'd guess not based on you post. Even if this isn't acceptable to you, appreciate his honesty as you can decide what to do BEFORE it becomes a greater issue for you both. He may never act on his wish, and he may never cheat on you either - that depends on his ethics and your sense of his behavior to date, and his willingness to commit - or not - based on your answer.
Whatever you do, do not break down and marry this man. Then you will find yourself in the bind of a marriage and the difficulty of a divorce and telling yourself he will change.
He has already hurt your feelings just with the thought of it, and as I think MIKE said, he has probably already done it.
I know you love him but I would break it off now before you become any more vested in the relationship and head to the courthouse and file for custody of your child as well as for child support.
Whatever you do, do not break down and marry this man. Then you will find yourself in the bind of a marriage and the difficulty of a divorce and telling yourself he will change.
He has already hurt your feelings just with the thought of it, and as I think MIKE said, he has probably already done it.
I know you love him but I would break it off now before you become any more vested in the relationship and head to the courthouse and file for custody of your child as well as for child support.
Yes, if you leave him, PLEASE get child support. I don't want to see women get on welfare, and I'm tired of these bozo men who think its some kind of macho thing to father a bunch of kids with separate women... not saying that about him, just generically....
Maybe these azzholes will think twice before knocking up several women.... I really am amazaed at how some men actually get off on this and think it's some kind of sign of manhood.
You wanna be a man... take care of your children.....
My fiance wants to sleep with other women .. he says all men want to do hes.just.being honest.because he loves me and doesnt.want to lose me that he would never.put another women before me ..he just wants.to.have sex with some. Women sometimes.. we have been together for almost.three years.in july and we live together and have a 9 month old.child.what should I do .. and what does.this mean im not good enough any more ?
Ouch, sucks that a little child is in the middle of this and doesn't even know it. Honestly, the best thing for you to do would be to tell him to take a hike and leave him. If he's the father of your child and you guys have been together that long, he should man up and be loyal to his baby's mother.
Can't stand all these dead-beat fathers these days. No offense OP.
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