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Old 05-29-2013, 07:03 AM
 
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I read sexual relations in Clinton's voice lol
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Old 05-29-2013, 07:58 AM
 
Location: Sandy Springs, GA
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Two schools of thought on the OP's post.

1. All men want to sleep with other women
Mmmm, not exactly. I would say that all men still find women attractive irregardless of how doe-y eyed in love they get. However, how much they allow themselves to wallow in this kind of desire varies greatly from guy to guy and even situation-to-situation. Your man is embracing this feeling, which is a bad sign. It doesn't necessarily mean he will certainly step out and have an affair, but something like that occurring would not be surprising for someone who doesn't make any effort to curb his desire.

2. Your man is telling you that he wants to sleep with other women
This is probably a really, really bad sign. It might be a case of your guy being honest to a fault, or it might be a guy trying to send a very blunt signal that he is not completely vested in the relationship. Most guys know that saying this to their partner unless they want to start a fight or to weaken the relationship.

The bad news is that there is probably nothing you can do to change this guy's attitude. Even if you got in super-shape and put your life into completely, 100%-successful order it would only get fleeting attention from this guy. Once something becomes familiar, it takes a lot more to make it more exciting.

I don't have any good suggestions. If you think this guy will have an outside affair, then please break off your romantic relationship and start healing emotionally ASAP. It might not ever not hurt a little, but the sooner you can channel your energy into more productive purposes then the better off you will be.
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Old 05-29-2013, 08:12 AM
 
Location: LOITOKITOK KENYA
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My take is that there is no good sexual relationship between you two or else this was a joke. But something has to account for this attitude. Its good to know whether this was made as a last resort protest on a relationship problem with you.
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Old 05-29-2013, 08:34 AM
 
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Goodbye
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