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My fiance wants to sleep with other women .. he says all men want to do hes.just.being honest.because he loves me and doesnt.want to lose me that he would never.put another women before me ..he just wants.to.have sex with some. Women sometimes.. we have been together for almost.three years.in july and we live together and have a 9 month old.child.what should I do .. and what does.this mean im not good enough any more ?
My fiance wants to sleep with other women .. he says all men want to do hes.just.being honest.because he loves me and doesnt.want to lose me that he would never.put another women before me ..he just wants.to.have sex with some. Women sometimes.. we have been together for almost.three years.in july and we live together and have a 9 month old.child.what should I do .. and what does.this mean im not good enough any more ?
If he wants to do that,then let him leave. I'm sorry,but your life is at risk if you let him do that,and stay together.
Too many Std's.
Or
Tell him he can,but you want to have sex with other men also.
What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
My fiance wants to sleep with other women .. he says all men want to do hes.just.being honest.because he loves me and doesnt.want to lose me that he would never.put another women before me ..he just wants.to.have sex with some. Women sometimes.. we have been together for almost.three years.in july and we live together and have a 9 month old.child.what should I do .. and what does.this mean im not good enough any more ?
I have really been thinking alot lately about this and I have told him once upon a time I was going to go along with it at first but I knew deep down in my heart if it ever happened I'd be heart broken and there could be no way possible I could stay with him so I told him I couldn't goo along with it deep down i know this is.something he.wants.to.do so I compromised and.had.a three some but that was.a.fail I feel as if my feelings.for him.are. changing all because I.know.what he wants.to.do.but I love.him ... breaking up its hard
My fiance wants to sleep with other women .. he says all men want to do hes.just.being honest.because he loves me and doesnt.want to lose me that he would never.put another women before me ..he just wants.to.have sex with some. Women sometimes.. we have been together for almost.three years.in july and we live together and have a 9 month old.child.what should I do .. and what does.this mean im not good enough any more ?
Dump him. He has expressed wanting to have sex with other women. He will go out and do it eventually. If you choose to stay with him while knowing he's out banging other women, don't go getting mad at him. By staying with him you've given him the green light to keep on doing it.
If you do drop him, don't take him back for the sake of your child. Just take those child support payments and leave it at that.
I'd break up with him immediately. you have a child, and that is your first concern. you also need to worry about yourself. if you feel uncomfortable with it, leave. I understand its hard, but you'll feel worse being with someone who is having sex with other women.
Look, you're not into having a nonmonogamous relationship. That's not unusual. Call his bluff - tell him it's not for you and it's not negotiable. If he bails, then it is what it is. Better he leave, than you spend your days feeling miserable, jealous and unloved. And maybe he'll readjust his viewpoint when he realizes he will lose what he currently has - though I wouldn't hold my breath.
I'm sorry Concentrate on what's doing best for you and your baby, because this guy clearly isn't focused on that.
my man wants to have sexual relations with other women what should I do ?
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Originally Posted by black_cat
My fiance wants to sleep with other women .. he says all men want to do hes.just.being honest.because he loves me and doesnt.want to lose me that he would never.put another women before me ..he just wants.to.have sex with some. Women sometimes.. we have been together for almost.three years.in july and we live together and have a 9 month old.child.what should I do .. and what does.this mean im not good enough any more ?
Now you can see why it isn't a good idea to shack up with someone and have a child out of wedlock. You can file for child support, but you can't even file for divorce because he didn't care enough about you to marry you before you had his child. Wake up! If he really loved you he would have married you, if he really loved you he wouldn't want to have sex with other women. His thinking is not normal, nor is yours if you think this is all right. Leave, he isn't worth the trouble and the heart ache you will go through if you stay with him...
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lol.
Concentrate on what's doing best for you and your baby, because this guy clearly isn't focused on that.
my man wants to have sexual relations with other women what should I do ?
