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In all seriousness, I do have questions that I like to ask. No doubt many people on the C-D relationships forum would accuse me of sounding like a hiring manager/job interview, as I do like to ask about work, career goals, how someone got into their field, if they like their job, that sort of thing. I also like to find out stuff like books they've recently read and what magazines they subscribe to.
I also have a checklist of things I watch for... Such as:
- does he say please/thank you to the server?
- does he hold a door open for the elderly couple walking out, or let it slam in their face?
- is he thrown into road rage too easily?
- how does he react to losing (game of pool, if his favorite team loses a game)
- is he open to trying new food, or is he a picky eater?
Obviously, there's more to it than that, but that should give you an idea of the kind of stuff I think about when I'm trying to decide if I'm interested and want to pursue something.
In all seriousness, I do have questions that I like to ask. No doubt many people on the C-D relationships forum would accuse me of sounding like a hiring manager/job interview, as I do like to ask about work, career goals, how someone got into their field, if they like their job, that sort of thing. I also like to find out stuff like books they've recently read and what magazines they subscribe to.
I also have a checklist of things I watch for... Such as:
- does he say please/thank you to the server?
- does he hold a door open for the elderly couple walking out, or let it slam in their face?
- is he thrown into road rage too easily?
- how does he react to losing (game of pool, if his favorite team loses a game)
- is he open to trying new food, or is he a picky eater?
Obviously, there's more to it than that, but that should give you an idea of the kind of stuff I think about when I'm trying to decide if I'm interested and want to pursue something.
So what if he has road rage?
You'd have it too, if you lived in Miami, possibly the city with the worst drivers in America
I pay a lot of attention to agency. Does the person perceive the events of their life as a result of choices they made? Or of other people imposing things on them?
Have you ever seen a grown man naked?
Have you ever been in a Turkish prison?
Would you be willing to put the lotion in the basket? What is the flight distance of an unladen swallow?
...and if so, what are they? And are there things that you listen for?
Are you circumcised?
If your mother doesn't like me, do you care?
Do you really like the way girls taste down there?
What is one of your favorite books?
Do you REALLY think I am a great kisser?
What are you favorite colors?
Do you think you are good in bed?
Who is your hero and why?
Do you like playing sports?
What do you consider a good man?
What if their family is ****ty? Would you be willing to date them still?
What would their family have to do with it? What if the date is a really nice and interesting person? You'd pass that up just because his/her family members aren't nice people? Some people evolve well beyond their roots, even at an early age. Sometimes the apple DOES fall far from the tree, and that's a good thing. So which are you going to eat, the apple or the tree? Who cares about the tree? As long as the apple isn't still attached, the tree becomes irrelevant.
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