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I am a man who ended up having a nice chat with a woman in the grocery store the other day and when I was talking to her, I noticed her blushing quite a bit so I was getting what I thought was a sign of interest from her. I made a flirtatious comment and her face got even more red but then she suddenly walked away mid-conversation. At that point I thought there were two possibilities as to what happened, either:
1) she just wasn't interested and that is why she walked away or..
2) she was becoming interested/attracted but the sexual tension got a little uncomfortable for her so she walked away.
Unfortunately, I made the mistake of just assuming #1 - that she wasn't interested and didn't approach her again when I saw her in the next aisle over but in retrospect I'm wondering if maybe I should have given her a few minutes and then approached her a 2nd time asking for her # or email address?
What do you guys/gals think?
Impossible to know.
I'm also curious as to what the 'flirtatious comment' was and what led up to it
she probably had a spontaneous orgasm from your flirty wit and just needed a minute to compose herself. next time you see her suggest a quickie in the store bathroom
Sounds like you said something you though was flirtatious but she thought was inappropriate. She physically removed herself from the situation, without excusing herself or anything; it's safe to assume she wasn't interested.
You mentioned you thought she was interested because she was blushing. People blush for a variety of reasons. I look like I'm blushing hen I get upset or angry, for example. Or she could have been blushing because you said something that she found embarrassing . . . In a bad way.
I think we'd all be interested in knowing more about the specifics of what you said and what she said; it would help clarify the situation.
I am a man who ended up having a nice chat with a woman in the grocery store the other day and when I was talking to her, I noticed her blushing quite a bit so I was getting what I thought was a sign of interest from her. I made a flirtatious comment and her face got even more red but then she suddenly walked away mid-conversation. At that point I thought there were two possibilities as to what happened, either:
1) she just wasn't interested and that is why she walked away or..
2) she was becoming interested/attracted but the sexual tension got a little uncomfortable for her so she walked away.
Unfortunately, I made the mistake of just assuming #1 - that she wasn't interested and didn't approach her again when I saw her in the next aisle over but in retrospect I'm wondering if maybe I should have given her a few minutes and then approached her a 2nd time asking for her # or email address?
What do you guys/gals think?
You did the right thing in my opinion and honestly it is hard to say how she took the comment that you meant to be flirty. IF you happen to see her again in the market see what happens, she may approach you or she may not. If you do happen to see her again as you are walking past her you might say something simple like: "Hey, it's nice to see you again, have a great day" then continue on your way.
That way you have been cordial, you have shown interest and you have put the proverbial ball in her court to approach you after that or not.
#4: She farted and needed to escape before you figured it out.
#5: She really needed to pick her nose.
--Dim
#4
Definitely #4.
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