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Things in the bedroom are pretty good. I made him wait a while (about four months) before
we got intimate because that's how you get a guy into a serios relationship.
So the entire relationship is based on you playing games and scheming?
He'll be well rid of you.
I wouldn't blame him if he leaves you, actually. You played the typical stupid, manipulative game - it's okay to have sex immediately with someone you don't care for, but make the good guys wait. Well, the good guys will stay around even if you have sex with them early on. That's why they're good men. He found you out for being manipulative. He's not good enough for you, but "dirt bag" Sal was okay to ***** around with?
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Originally Posted by TaoistDude
That may be the issue, but I think the issue may be more about the manipulation and double standard.
So, wait... You're saying that if a woman doesn't treat every guy exactly the same, sleeping with them on the same schedule (one night or 4 months), she's manipulative? You think there should be some standard followed to keep everyone's feelings from getting hurt?
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Originally Posted by Ascension2012
Love the male bashing in this thread. Shows how insanely biased some of the posters here are. So fellas, pay attention, when your future dream girl is making you walk around with blue balls for 4 months, she is geting it on with every dirtbag she can find. Funny story. OP I hope he leaves you, you deserve nothing less.
This is the dumbest thread I've ever read. These answers are ridiculous. If "John" wants to turn this in to a big deal, then that is on John. What someone has done in their past is NOT his business unless that person is now carrying around an STD...then of course it is his business if he's in intimate relations with the person. There is no reason for this girl to feel guilty or bad about any relation she's had in the past if it was two consenting adults. It's NOT John's business, at all!
This is the only fricken response on this thread that gets it!
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Originally Posted by Lilac110
...Which is why the OP should make no apologies for her relationship with Sal. It's done, it's over with, move on.
Honestly? It's really none of John's business how fast or slow she went with her past BFs, and he should have cut whoever the big-mouth was who brought it up off at the knees.
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