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God, I love your positivity about people who choose to live differently from yourself. LOL! It's uplifting, really.
*shrug* If people wanna fook like monkeys in heat with no moral stances to keep themselves in control amongst modern society, I could care less honestly. If you take my viewpoints that seriously, i'm not the one with the problem methinks. I grew up in Lutheran upbringing of a true, meaningful, loving and trusting relationship includes being dedicated to only one partner, no exceptions.
But hey, have fun your dating way and just don't add to the welfare costs because you can't or won't take care of your out of wedlock kids, im sick of that crap.
*shrug* If people wanna fook like monkeys in heat with no moral stances to keep themselves in control amongst modern society, I could care less honestly. If you take my viewpoints that seriously, i'm not the one with the problem methinks
Me neither! I am happy for both of us. My moral stances involve firm commitment to the importance of family, love and caring as well as personal responsibility, conservationism, honesty and integrity. I sleep well at night. I just love more than one person. I don't see how that can be bad when we all tend to agree that love is a good thing.
*shrug* If people wanna fook like monkeys in heat with no moral stances to keep themselves in control amongst modern society, I could care less honestly. If you take my viewpoints that seriously, i'm not the one with the problem methinks. I grew up in Lutheran upbringing of a true, meaningful, loving and trusting relationship includes being dedicated to only one partner, no exceptions.
But hey, have fun your dating way and just don't add to the welfare costs because you can't or won't take care of your out of wedlock kids, im sick of that crap.
As long as you are happy with following those teachings, good for you. Moral choices can be made that differ markedly from yours. Some people don't make ethical choices regardless of their beliefs and upbringing, and others do.
Oh, that's what I meant -- read other people's RL experiences. On poly forums, for example.
Why would I go there for the truth? Most people (regardless of the subject) can only be counted on to paint themselves and their lifestyle in a positive light. I'm sure many of the posters here would testify that monogamous people do this all the time. The truth is, you can catch every sort of person doing this.
The only real difference between animals and human beings is about ability to have "Moral choices" If you wanna let your animal and biological instincts take over from what it means to be a human being, your basically nothing more then a clothed animal.
Right. And if you are unable to interact with multiple partners in a moral and ethical manner, then you probably should leave it to those who can.
*shrug* If people wanna fook like monkeys in heat with no moral stances to keep themselves in control amongst modern society, I could care less honestly. If you take my viewpoints that seriously, i'm not the one with the problem methinks. I grew up in Lutheran upbringing of a true, meaningful, loving and trusting relationship includes being dedicated to only one partner, no exceptions.
But hey, have fun your dating way and just don't add to the welfare costs because you can't or won't take care of your out of wedlock kids, im sick of that crap.
I'm married in a monogamous relationship with 3 kids. I just don't have an issue with people that choose to live differently to me. I was just amused that you REALLY don't like it. Do you always react so abruptly to people?
I'm married in a monogamous relationship with 3 kids. I just don't have an issue with people that choose to live differently to me. I was just amused that you REALLY don't like it. Do you always react so abruptly to people?
I've had coworkers make a game of trying to get me angry. "Wait for it, wait for it, I think we got her this time!" It takes a lot to get me worked up. That's why my 3 children are still alive.
My experience is that a large percentage of discussion in poly forums and poly groups concerns how to define the terms you list. Everybody has a different interpretation .
@lovesMountains:
So including god is optional, but including another human is not? What about Jesus? Jesus of Nazareth, or Jesus Hernandez?
More seriously:
Some people I know belong to religions where having more than one spouse is normal and ok. Their god approves. Actually, that might be true for most poly people I know. None of them are mormons or muslim, but there are a lot of religions that allow for poly.
I guess if you like, you could make up a different name for a group of three I know who have been together 15 years, have two children and a mortgage together, and legal paperwork that gives them inheritance rights and alimony if they break up and health insurance and child custody and all that stuff.
Cute
But to be clear, Jesus IS God.
And while the free will He gifted us allows us to choose him or deny him, or even believe in others besides him, any religion that allows more than one wife (or husband) is not one I personally could adhere to or respect. Fortunately, I only have myself and my own actions to account for, so I don't spend much time worrying about what others do
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LOL! It's uplifting, really. 
