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Old 06-06-2013, 03:40 PM
 
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I know. What one person thinks is plain is wonderful to another. What do you find attractive in men? What would make a man a 10?
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Old 06-06-2013, 03:43 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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ok, so what do you find attractive in a woman? Her hair, long or short? Blonde or brunette? Her face, do you like the blonde/ blue white girl combo or a more exotic look?, Do you like thin, athletic, tall , short, heavier women??? What do you like?
Short, think, dark skin, dark hair, curves and an accent.

Most people here don't agree with me and what I consider a 10. Doesn't bother me.

It seems so ridiculous that people get obsessed with "what is a 10" though. I don't get it.
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Old 06-06-2013, 03:46 PM
 
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And people still wonder why they cannot get a single date let alone keep getting dates.......

Rating attractiveness isn't like putting up number cards at the Olympics for gymnastics............. "the judges give him a 7.5 for form.."
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Old 06-06-2013, 03:46 PM
 
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Short, think, dark skin, dark hair, curves and an accent.

Most people here don't agree with me and what I consider a 10. Doesn't bother me.

It seems so ridiculous that people get obsessed with "what is a 10" though. I don't get it.
Yes, different people find different things attractive. So this would be a 10 to you. If she didn't have an accent and was of average height, would that then make her about a 6 or an 8 to you?
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Old 06-06-2013, 03:47 PM
 
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And people still wonder why they cannot get a single date let alone keep getting dates.......

Rating attractiveness isn't like putting up number cards at the Olympics for gymnastics............. "the judges give him a 7.5 for form.."
Ok, lets simplify it. What is most important in a male's looks and a female's looks? Hair, body/height, or face?
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Old 06-06-2013, 03:47 PM
 
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I typically prefer shorter, non-white females in very good aesthetic shape. I prefer brunettes. Usually hispanic or middle eastern type

This whole thing is completely subjective though. I can call a 5'10" blonde a 10, just as I could call a 5'1" bangladeshi a 10. It ALLLL depends.

That's just looks, then you throw in personality. I've known "10's" look wise that are such stuck up rude, dumb, girls that it made them a 2 and I couldn't even stand being around them.

I've also met 7's that are just beyond amazingly cool and down to earth, it makes them a 10.
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Old 06-06-2013, 03:50 PM
 
Location: Viña del Mar, Chile
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Yes, different people find different things attractive. So this would be a 10 to you. If she didn't have an accent and was of average height, would that then make her about a 6 or an 8 to you?

No, I see light skinned and blonde girls that I'd call a 10...

That's why trying to make lists here or itemize things is a pointless waste of time.
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Old 06-06-2013, 03:58 PM
 
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I think the chest should be Larger rather than Smaller, and the hips should match the chest, with the waist being narrower than the hips, with a some what flat stomach. A cute face makes her a 10, along with Darker skin.

Was feeling lazy so adjusted yours. Cute face, quick wit, and great attitude rule in my world.

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Old 06-06-2013, 03:59 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Short, think, dark skin, dark hair, curves and an accent.

Most people here don't agree with me and what I consider a 10. Doesn't bother me.

It seems so ridiculous that people get obsessed with "what is a 10" though. I don't get it.
Every time there is a question like this, someone freaks out and says it is completely subjective. This claim is about as ridiculous as saying the scale is absolute fact, meaning a 10 is a 10 to everyone in the world. It is definitely possible to rate someone as 9 or 10 and other people of similar cultural background will acknowledge that this person is highly attractive. Of course you will always have outliers who claim this person is completely hideous. What is subjective is how useful having knowledge of your number is in terms of dating. Let's say you find out you are a 7 on the hotness scale. This just means if you put your picture up on a site where random people are asked to rate you from 1 to 10, given a good sample size, the consensus will be you are a 7. It has almost no bearing on whether you can land a 10 or whether being with a 5 is settling.
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Old 06-06-2013, 04:04 PM
 
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Ok, lets simplify it. What is most important in a male's looks and a female's looks? Hair, body/height, or face?
This may come as a shock to some but men think differently, they like different attributes and consider different things to be attractive. Some men will agree with ones rating and others will not. The only thing that seems to be generally universal is amount of limbs and other physical attributes... amount of eyes for instance. Though that isn't a certainty either.

There's no universal scale. This applies to women, cars, motorbikes, beer, whiskey everything.

Just like it does with women... you can't simplify it because it's unquantifiable.
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