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Old 06-20-2013, 09:55 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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People are looking for someone to "complete" them. The problem is, a healthy person is looking for a complete person. You have to be a complete person on your own before a romance like that can take off.
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Old 06-20-2013, 10:13 AM
 
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I don't see why people make entire threads about this.

I mean, I've done it already, but I don't see why I should shout to the world this information, it doesn't effect them and I'm not looking for sympathy. I don't really care what others think.

If this is a decision you've made then keep it to yourself and don't tell it to anyone unless you have to and fill your life with other things that make you happy. I have.
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Old 06-20-2013, 10:26 AM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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I, Jason, hereby surrender to the dating scene.
C'mon Jason, stop being so pathetic! You need some tough love... First off, quit focusing so much on getting the girl and make yourself a better person so that you can become more confident which is a very attractive trait. Focus on your career, hobbies, friends, volunteerism, spiritualism, intellect, etc...

Also, you are not in a fraternity anymore... Women tend to grow out of the teenage stage where they are chasing frat boy eye candy, because they no longer need a dude who just looks good in mixer pics and makes all their sorority sisters jealous. Usually women start wanting a little bit more than that as they mature.
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Old 06-20-2013, 11:11 AM
 
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C'mon Jason, stop being so pathetic! You need some tough love... First off, quit focusing so much on getting the girl and make yourself a better person so that you can become more confident which is a very attractive trait. Focus on your career, hobbies, friends, volunteerism, spiritualism, intellect, etc...

Also, you are not in a fraternity anymore... Women tend to grow out of the teenage stage where they are chasing frat boy eye candy, because they no longer need a dude who just looks good in mixer pics and makes all their sorority sisters jealous. Usually women start wanting a little bit more than that as they mature.
He is posting elsewhere on CD but ignoring this thread he created now

I gave him tough love on my first post here because you and I know how much he needs it.

Sadly, he is rejecting all attempts people here are making to really help him.

His loss
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Old 06-20-2013, 11:17 AM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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He is posting elsewhere on CD but ignoring this thread he created now

I gave him tough love on my first post here because you and I know how much he needs it.

Sadly, he is rejecting all attempts people here are making to really help him.

His loss

I did like your initial post to him - spot on.

At least I got to enjoy the graphics on this thread - the white flags and tiny violins playing were great!
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Old 06-20-2013, 11:28 AM
 
Location: NC
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Turn in your man card bro.... and stay off the estrogen, it is making you too sensitive.
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Old 06-20-2013, 11:58 AM
 
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I think I mentioned this before, but when I lived in a fraternity

That may have been your first mistake.
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Old 06-20-2013, 12:07 PM
 
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That may have been your first mistake.
Yes, but that's another story ...
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Old 06-20-2013, 12:45 PM
 
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GlitteringPrizes, But I just have to say there are nice, genuine, down-to-earth females out there who want nice guys.

Yes, and they're all 45 and older.
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Old 06-20-2013, 12:47 PM
 
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Yes, and they're all 45 and older.
Not true.

But you will cling to this belief like it's some kind of life preserver so that you don't have to do anything different to save yourself
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