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People are looking for someone to "complete" them. The problem is, a healthy person is looking for a complete person. You have to be a complete person on your own before a romance like that can take off.
I don't see why people make entire threads about this.
I mean, I've done it already, but I don't see why I should shout to the world this information, it doesn't effect them and I'm not looking for sympathy. I don't really care what others think.
If this is a decision you've made then keep it to yourself and don't tell it to anyone unless you have to and fill your life with other things that make you happy. I have.
C'mon Jason, stop being so pathetic! You need some tough love... First off, quit focusing so much on getting the girl and make yourself a better person so that you can become more confident which is a very attractive trait. Focus on your career, hobbies, friends, volunteerism, spiritualism, intellect, etc...
Also, you are not in a fraternity anymore... Women tend to grow out of the teenage stage where they are chasing frat boy eye candy, because they no longer need a dude who just looks good in mixer pics and makes all their sorority sisters jealous. Usually women start wanting a little bit more than that as they mature.
C'mon Jason, stop being so pathetic! You need some tough love... First off, quit focusing so much on getting the girl and make yourself a better person so that you can become more confident which is a very attractive trait. Focus on your career, hobbies, friends, volunteerism, spiritualism, intellect, etc...
Also, you are not in a fraternity anymore... Women tend to grow out of the teenage stage where they are chasing frat boy eye candy, because they no longer need a dude who just looks good in mixer pics and makes all their sorority sisters jealous. Usually women start wanting a little bit more than that as they mature.
He is posting elsewhere on CD but ignoring this thread he created now
I gave him tough love on my first post here because you and I know how much he needs it.
Sadly, he is rejecting all attempts people here are making to really help him.
But you will cling to this belief like it's some kind of life preserver so that you don't have to do anything different to save yourself
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