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Old 07-04-2013, 09:48 PM
 
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So all my guy friends say that they like to cuddle if they're really into a girl, and even then it's not something that's really important to them. I know every guy is different, but a while ago I was in a FWB situation, and the guy just loved to cuddle. My ex-boyfriends didnt even cuddle with me like he did. We would do the deed, and then for the rest of the entire night he would just cuddle with me which I always found so odd for a guy to do, especially cause I'm not really into cuddling myself...I mean it's ok for a little while, but the entire night? c'mon!!

Anyway just wondering how many of you guys just like cuddling for the sake of cuddling? Or do you have to be really into the girl?
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Old 07-04-2013, 09:50 PM
 
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I don't cuddle, period. Leave me alone. I'm trying to sleep.
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Old 07-04-2013, 09:52 PM
 
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If I am in a relationship I love to cuddle.

Otherwise, you're in my space. GTFO of my space.
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Old 07-04-2013, 09:55 PM
 
Location: Virginia Beach, VA
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Cuddling is difficult for me. I always have...ambitions. Now cuddling after sex is fine because I've already got it out of my system. But like PF says, after a while I just want my space. The beauty of a king size bed is you can cuddle when you want to and when you've had your fill you roll over until you're in a different zip code and have plenty of personal space.
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Old 07-04-2013, 10:02 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I would only cuddle if I was stranded out in the cold and had no other means to keep myself warm, but that's after trying numerous times to start a fire.
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Old 07-04-2013, 10:09 PM
 
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Cuddling is difficult for me. I always have...ambitions. Now cuddling after sex is fine because I've already got it out of my system. But like PF says, after a while I just want my space. The beauty of a king size bed is you can cuddle when you want to and when you've had your fill you roll over until you're in a different zip code and have plenty of personal space.
Never had a guy who wanted to cuddle without the reward.
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Old 07-04-2013, 10:10 PM
 
Location: Holiday, FL
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I'm not likely to want to cuddle with someone I hardly know. But, if the woman really means a lot to me, then yes. I do like to cuddle. And, then, it's as if I can not spend enough time close to her. The physical closeness re-enforces the emotional tie. For me, it's always been that way. And, the longer I can keep her next to me, the better.
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Old 07-04-2013, 10:13 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Only had one who liked it. It was really nice.
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Old 07-04-2013, 10:15 PM
 
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I like it. I spent a lot of years keeping people at a distance. Sometimes it's nice to let someone get close...
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Old 07-04-2013, 10:19 PM
 
Location: Big Bear City, CA
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I don't mind it, although there's always a limit. I don't necessarily like to cuddle after sex though.. Sweaty skin pressed up against my own just feels kind of dirty. I hate how skin sticks to each other. Clothed cuddling though... Yes please. I don't have issues wanting to show a bit of affection.
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