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Yes, it's been the only thing to keep me sane at times.
But faith is also not a crutch or magic spell. YOU have control over your actions, and sometimes you just ... Walk away.
I understand. I agree, I shouldn't use spirtuality as a form of magic. I need to realize who I am as a person and realize I control my own actions before anyone or anything else. In order to not be selfish you have to be empathetic... Think about others. They go hand in hand IMO.
Sometimes we all do things we wish we hadn't...that doesn't mean you should beat yourself up about it...you've already shown you are feeling remorseful..there's nothing more you can do now..just don't keep dwelling on it...no harm was done.
My friend knowingly had sex with a married man for years and she seems to be in a happy relationship and living a happy life. I guess karma doesn't always exist for everyone!
It is better to learn through your own experiences. Nobody's perfect, but through experiences that are good and bad, we do learn to be better people. I know I have have had my fare share of shameful demeanors that I had to somehow forgive myself for. If the same circumstance happens right back in your own face further down the line. I sure hope your forgiving as well.
There is no such thing as karma. If you feel guilty and you react negatively it can seem that way. Get over it and enjoy life. It is within your power.
No. It won't be ok. I feel so bad for the girlfriend. So bad. She's been through a lot. Yet, she knows his ways and she still stays. I can't stand this guy. He knows how insecure I can be and he takes advantage of it. I honestly hope things will be ok.
You should feel bad for her because she's dating a loser.
Not because he played on your insecurities to rope you into some kissing and "messing around."
Honestly. Just the fact that you're singing his praises while damning yourself is a sign that you need therapy.
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