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Old 07-10-2013, 08:54 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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I then must have blacked out but when i came to my senses after 10 to 20 seconds i was giving him head. I stopped immediately and screamed WTF and then vomited all over him!
Sorry, but I wouldn't believe this story for 2 seconds.
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Old 07-10-2013, 08:56 PM
 
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I would dump your arse pronto and I hope he does the same
This is how both men and women should react to cheating (whether kids are involved or not), but sadly, many don't. Many stay together and their relationship just goes on a slow and painful decline, eventually ending in breakup anyway. A few stay indefinitely because they are so damn scared to be on their own and pretend to the world they have the best relationship ever. It's pathetic. They claim commitment because commitment is admirable but there's nothing admirable about that kind of commitment.
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Old 07-10-2013, 09:02 PM
 
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I think you should try to get some counseling. While I know that your focus is on him, right now, the fact that you tried to kill yourself (even though you have a child who should be your priority at this time), is proof that you need to get yourself some help. Not just for you, but also for the health and well-being of your child.
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Old 07-10-2013, 09:06 PM
 
Location: Lemon Heights, Orange County, CA
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Sorry, but I wouldn't believe this story for 2 seconds.
I am going to have to agree. The physiology involved in that description defies logic.
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Old 07-10-2013, 09:07 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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Sorry, but I wouldn't believe this story for 2 seconds.
Me either, but at least even the fictitious threads still can make for a good discussion
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Old 07-10-2013, 09:49 PM
 
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The old "I slipped and my mouth accidentally fell right on his penis" defense doesn't sell very well. My guess is you now stand at the beginning of the end no matter what you do. Everyone screws up, I'm hopeful you won't need a repeat this one again.
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Old 07-10-2013, 09:58 PM
 
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You're an alcoholic. Get help. You really need it. Join Alcoholics Anonymous today.
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Old 07-10-2013, 10:03 PM
 
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I don't ever drink! That was the first time in months!!!
Doesn't matter. You can't control your drinking. This incident is proof. You could have died from two different causes: 1) alcohol poisoning 2) alcohol induced suicidal attempt. Your drinking problem is very serious, even if you haven't had a drink in 5 years.

You need to get help.
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Old 07-10-2013, 10:09 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Doesn't matter. You can't control your drinking. This incident is proof. You could have died from two different causes: 1) alcohol poisoning 2) alcohol induced suicidal attempt.

3) Fall asleep and choke on a penis.



What?

Stranger things have happened.
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Old 07-10-2013, 10:14 PM
 
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So let me get this straight, OP. You went from having a perfectly innocent social interaction with two other people, with no hint of any flirting or sexual tension, then 10 seconds later you awaken with one of them sodomizing you?

Is that how it went down? Or was there perhaps something that occurred in between?

If not, you were assaulted.
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