Any Guys Here Date a Chubby Girl Who Turned Into Hot/More Athletic?
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I feel offended by the very nature of this thread (and I am a fit male).
OP, if you think she is great, than accept her for who she is. If she expresses an interest and desire in working out, being healthier, or losing weight, then be supportive of that. However, absolutely do not get pushy or abbrasive. Also, do not hold an expectation that she follow through, or actually lose weight for you to accept her.
You need to accept her as she is, and be fully happy and content with that. If your not, do her a favor and walk now. You cannot force, control, or manipulate people to fit into your mold.
(PS, if your not attracted to her, thats fine. You do not have to be. However, if you are attracted, be so without conditions).
An excellent post to end this thread.
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