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Old 08-09-2013, 09:25 AM
 
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Hey guys. Im hoping to find a good women for a serious relationship. Where I come from your a wuss for it so its something new to me because i never sought after a women to love and cherish before and thats it. I was always taught to dog em treat em like you know whats and play them. Anything else would make you a sucker.

What are some qualities are hints that a women may be good. I want a girl thats loyal honest kind open minded a freak in the sheets and just has your back.

At the same time I do want a more modern women and less of a traditional one. A girl who isnt afraid to get her hands dirty who doesnt mind me cooking and is career orientated too.

What are some signs and hints that a women is good? Thanks in advance for the advice.
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Old 08-09-2013, 09:27 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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You thump on her head - if there's a nice hollow sound, she's ripe. Oh wait, that's watermelon...
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Old 08-09-2013, 09:30 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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Hey guys. Im hoping to find a good women for a serious relationship. Where I come from your a wuss for it so its something new to me because i never sought after a women to love and cherish before and thats it. I was always taught to dog em treat em like you know whats and play them. Anything else would make you a sucker.

What are some qualities are hints that a women may be good. I want a girl thats loyal honest kind open minded a freak in the sheets and just has your back.

At the same time I do want a more modern women and less of a traditional one. A girl who isnt afraid to get her hands dirty who doesnt mind me cooking and is career orientated too.

What are some signs and hints that a women is good? Thanks in advance for the advice.
I'm sure you'll get lots of good - and not so good - advice. Plus, you'll have to overcome any negative attitudes such as those mentioned in your first paragraph.

If you're serious about this, get the book "Are you the one for me?" by Barbara DeAngelis. I've found no better or more comprehensive guide to relationships than this, and it has helped many friends and family.
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Old 08-09-2013, 09:31 AM
 
Location: NY metro area
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You thump on her head - if there's a nice hollow sound, she's ripe. Oh wait, that's watermelon...
Yeah, but I do have to question if that's the technique some of the men on CDR use to go about finding a good woman.
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Old 08-09-2013, 09:31 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Imo. Pretty much any decent woman can be wifey material. Only time will tell.
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Old 08-09-2013, 09:34 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Yeah, but I do have to question if that's the technique some of the men on CDR use to go about finding a good woman.
I think it is!!!

Honestly - I don't see what the issue is. Find someone that makes you happy and doesn't make you unhappy very often. When you find the right person - you want to be around them all the time. There isn't some magical formula for deciding who is "wife" material since every man and woman is different. What makes a good wife for one guy might make a horrible wife for the next guy. We are all unique - it's about finding a person that you connect with.
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Old 08-09-2013, 09:37 AM
 
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Imo. Pretty much any decent woman can be wifey material. Only time will tell.
There is some truth to this. I geuss its more about compatibility then standard characteristics of a good women. Very wise statement.
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Old 08-09-2013, 09:39 AM
 
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I'm not a "decent" women and men still find me wifey material.
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Old 08-09-2013, 09:40 AM
 
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I think it is!!!

Honestly - I don't see what the issue is. Find someone that makes you happy and doesn't make you unhappy very often. When you find the right person - you want to be around them all the time. There isn't some magical formula for deciding who is "wife" material since every man and woman is different. What makes a good wife for one guy might make a horrible wife for the next guy. We are all unique - it's about finding a person that you connect with.
Your right. I have to find a woman who likes me for me and vice versa. I know what I want so I just have to be on the lookout for it.
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Old 08-09-2013, 09:42 AM
 
Location: SoCal again
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If she comes from a nice family, the chances of her being "good" is much higher. Children from disfunctional parents have a tendency to be freaky also. So, check out her parents, before you marry her.

Look at how she spends/manages her money. Does she offer to pay on dates? Does she waste her money on stupid expenses? Is she behind on bills? Does she expect big gifts from you? Does she feel entitled to get free stuff, uses other people?

Look carefully at how she treats people in general. Does she have friends, what kind of, how are they, since when are they friends? Be careful of people who constantly change their circle of friends. How does she treat the waitress when you go out? How does she speak about other people?
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