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Old 08-10-2013, 10:11 PM
 
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Most western men find women with thin facial features to be attractive and I don't possess that at all. I become incredibly jealous of women who can easily date western men and get their approval. I don't have any self esteem and don't know what to do. I'm very bitter and angry right now. help I don't know what to do

 
Old 08-10-2013, 10:15 PM
 
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Let me guess .... South Korean?
 
Old 08-10-2013, 10:15 PM
 
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Your anger and bitterness is what's chasing them away.
 
Old 08-10-2013, 10:16 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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Seek professional (therapy) help to work on you self-esteem issue. Most men don't find angry, bitter women with low self-esteem very attractive.
 
Old 08-10-2013, 10:18 PM
 
Location: Phoenix Arizona
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I like chunky women personally but that's just me
 
Old 08-10-2013, 10:19 PM
 
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Seek professional (therapy) help to work on you self-esteem issue. Most men don't find angry, bitter women with low self-esteem very attractive.
It's not my anger or bitterness that is chasing them away (although they never approach so there's nothing for me to chase away) it's how I look that is causing them to not be interested in me. Most men find women with thin facial features (narrow nose, fairskin, straight hair) to be attracted and I possess none of those features. As a result, I am very angry and desperate right now. I don't know what to do. I feel like my life is meaningless and has no value if I can't get an American man to find me attractive.
 
Old 08-10-2013, 10:20 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Most western men find women with thin facial features to be attractive and I don't possess that at all. I become incredibly jealous of women who can easily date western men and get their approval. I don't have any self esteem and don't know what to do. I'm very bitter and angry right now. help I don't know what to do
I wish I could help you... you remind me of how parents feel when they send their children off to Kindergarten... scared for them and wishing they could help them......

Do things... explore the world around you... don't envy other women... its' hard not to do it... I get it...don't worry so much about getting men's attention, just be in the moment.... stop comparing yourself to other women..... you get self esteem by being diligent in reaching your goals and try to not judge yourself so harshly.... I wish I could help you more Nyanna.....
 
Old 08-10-2013, 10:22 PM
 
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I feel like my womanhood has been stripped away from me. I might as well be a man if I can't get an American man to find me attractive
 
Old 08-10-2013, 10:25 PM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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It's not my anger or bitterness that is chasing them away (although they never approach so there's nothing for me to chase away) it's how I look that is causing them to not be interested in me. Most men find women with thin facial features (narrow nose, fairskin, straight hair) to be attracted and I possess none of those features. As a result, I am very angry and desperate right now. I don't know what to do. I feel like my life is meaningless and has no value if I can't get an American man to find me attractive.

There's more to attraction than physical features.
An attractive personality increases approachability.
 
Old 08-10-2013, 10:27 PM
 
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There's more to attraction than physical features.
An attractive personality increases approachability.
An attractive personality will make you friends but not a romantic partner. Besides, don't you think I've already tried being nice and friendly and it has gotten me nowhere? I'm angry and frustrated, and feel like lashing out at the world.
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