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Old 08-12-2013, 12:24 PM
 
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I met a guy on a dating site and we began talking on the site exchanging messages. He seemed really interested in me and the conversation. He asked me what I liked to do on my days off, when I would be free, and if we could exchange numbers. But with all that we have never communicated outside of the dating site and now he hasn't responded back to me in over a week. Did he just lose interest in me that fast or could it be something else. He told me he works as a CNA and I know that can be a very demanding job so sometimes he wouldnt be able to talk. Should I wait a little longer or just cut him off and move on?
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Old 08-12-2013, 12:31 PM
 
Location: West Harlem
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Advice: If he likes you, he will find you and/or find the time to contact you.

Accepting this transcendental truth and guiding yourself accordingly will set you free.

"Cut him off" ?
It's not a contest, you know.
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Old 08-12-2013, 01:18 PM
 
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Perhaps you should post this question on the Relationships forum.
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Old 08-12-2013, 02:20 PM
 
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This is not the right forum for this kind of question.
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Old 08-12-2013, 03:18 PM
 
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You have to admire the audacity of a guy making 8 bucks an hour changing bedpans and still kicking game.
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Old 08-12-2013, 04:32 PM
 
Location: Manhattan
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All you have to know about men is this. If we like you, we seek you. Immature people play games.
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Old 08-12-2013, 06:28 PM
 
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You have to admire the audacity of a guy making 8 bucks an hour changing bedpans and still kicking game.
What an annoying and silly post
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Old 08-13-2013, 04:48 AM
 
Location: In bucolic TN
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You didn't show enough interest early on. How old are you? There are faster fillies and one's he can eventually ride. You don't move as quick as he wants. He's likely setting things up with three others even as you are reading this, and he will get back to you in several days, writing, 'now that the project is over, let's get together.' This guy builds mountains, a shovel-full at a time. And all the others who wrote about immaturity, stop playing games, and his desire to find you: they are absolutely correct too.
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Old 08-13-2013, 07:26 AM
 
Location: NY
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I met a guy on a dating site and we began talking on the site exchanging messages. He seemed really interested in me and the conversation. He asked me what I liked to do on my days off, when I would be free, and if we could exchange numbers. But with all that we have never communicated outside of the dating site and now he hasn't responded back to me in over a week. Did he just lose interest in me that fast or could it be something else. He told me he works as a CNA and I know that can be a very demanding job so sometimes he wouldnt be able to talk. Should I wait a little longer or just cut him off and move on?
Although he sounded interested, he threw this in there to cover himself for when he doesn't call you. Makes him feel good about leading you on and letting you down.
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Old 08-13-2013, 10:04 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Let him reach out to you, but don't hold your breath.
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