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How long have you known this about him? Has he always been this way? If so, you should not have married him expecting him to change. Frankly, I don't know what the big stink is about--plenty of happily married bi-soxual couples out there so it seems to me that you may have an issue with control.
However, if this is a new behavior, you should talk to him openly and honestly about it. Maybe there's a reason this is happening. Some will suspect him of cheating, but I don't necessarily agree with that. He could just be experimenting and doesn't know how to talk to you about it. Or maybe he has always had this preference and hid it from you.
If all else fails, I suggest counseling, for both of you: You both need to learn how to communicate openly about socks and soxuality and try to reconcile yourselves to this. If you can't, you may be soxually incompatible and have to move on.
He is the man in the relationship, so his preference should rule the day. If he wants you to put your right sock on first, you should do it or risk going to hell.
Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. -Ephesians 5:21
In other words, you should be worrying more about keeping the house clean, cooking his favorite dinner, and living in a tent in the back yard when menstruating rather than letting the devil tell you which sock to put on first.
You know, I used to wear 2 pairs of sox at the same time back in the 80's, but it was a phase I grew out of. Perhaps this is a phase he is going through that he might grow out of. Are you willing to wait it out or explore other options?
You pretty much can't comment to a guy about his socksl. Their skin is not thick enough like girls. He's your husband so you have no real right to expect him to answer to you about his socks.
The best thing, the only thing, for you to do is to encourage him to stay active and consistent in his footwear.
Believe me, he is not unaware that he puts his socks on this way.
Inter-soxual relationships can and do work. It takes hard work and a lot of understanding, but it's possible.
--Dim
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