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Old 08-25-2013, 07:28 PM
 
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I think that just shows low self esteem and an issue with needing others approval to feel good about themselves.
I guess.

The lesbian thing was funny because she asked for me NOT to send her one of me. LOL!! Wouldn't happen anyways.
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Old 08-25-2013, 07:32 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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So here's what I don't get:

How come guys you're dating always ask for a nude or suggestive pic of you, when they can just look up porn and see a naked hot girl? One of my guy friends said its because its different when you actually know the naked girl in the pic.
Umm women do this too. I had one fling beg me for a pic of my "pickle". She wanted something to look forward to. I ended up sending a pic of the pickle "up and ready for consumption" but I was wearing my shorts so she didn't get the actual "naked truth."
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Old 08-25-2013, 07:36 PM
 
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One of the girls I'm currently seeing likes to send my nudey pics. I've never once asked for them, but she just like to send them. She's in all kinds of different poses. She's got great breasts so I think she likes to show them off. You ain't gonna hear me complain. But if I really want to just sit around by myself and view something pornographic, it'll be a well produced film on one of the many sites.
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Old 08-25-2013, 07:40 PM
 
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One of the girls I'm currently seeing likes to send my nudey pics. I've never once asked for them, but she just like to send them. She's in all kinds of different poses. She's got great breasts so I think she likes to show them off. You ain't gonna hear me complain. But if I really want to just sit around by myself and view something pornographic, it'll be a well produced film on one of the many sites.
But but you don't understand those things need to be handled...and stroked...and all that?

You guys loosing it?

My stars...we may need cloning to survive as a people...
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Old 08-25-2013, 07:42 PM
 
Location: Phoenix Arizona
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I've received nude pics from girls and quite frankly it didn't turn me on or off. I guess I'd just rather see the real deal otherwise it just looks like online porn to me.
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Old 08-25-2013, 07:42 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Yep, I do like men

But the truth is there is nothing attractive about a male or a female's private parts. I just find them gross. Hence, I would not want to see any of them in a picture.
Sorry to get snippy in my last post.

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Old 08-25-2013, 07:44 PM
 
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Eh, nudey pics of a girl you know can be nice when you need some original material to fap to.
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Old 08-25-2013, 07:44 PM
 
Location: Chicago, IL
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So here's what I don't get:

How come guys you're dating always ask for a nude or suggestive pic of you, when they can just look up porn and see a naked hot girl? One of my guy friends said its because its different when you actually know the naked girl in the pic.
Your friend is right. Plus, if it's something you're doing specifically for him, it's much more personal and intimate than professional porn that was done for everyone. It's sort of like asking why women like guys to give them flowers when they could just look at the flowers at public gardens.
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Old 08-25-2013, 08:09 PM
 
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Yep, I do like men

But the truth is there is nothing attractive about a male or a female's private parts. I just find them gross. Hence, I would not want to see any of them in a picture.
I gotta agree with you. I mean, I don't find them "gross", but they are certainly NOT attractive, to me, to look at, for the sake of looking. No pictures of privates for me. Plenty of better ways to get my attention!
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Old 08-25-2013, 08:44 PM
 
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I'm glad that camera phones and even digital cameras weren't around until after I was married LOL. I had dated a guy long-term and trusted him before I met my husband, and at one point maybe I would have done that for him if those things were around. But thank goodness they weren't - I would not want a photo of me like that "out there" somewhere. There is just no way in hell I could be OK with that. You just never know. I don't know how people could do it. So many people out there feel they are with someone they could trust and know, but how many of those relationships don't last?

And on the other end, I really wouldn't want to carry around a photo, just to look at it now and again. If I wanna see privates I'd rather just wait until we are together in person anyway. Like what the PP (ChessieMom) said - I am not going to be going about my day, and just decide on a whim to whip out my phone and stare at some crotch LOL.
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