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Old 08-26-2013, 08:19 AM
 
Location: Brooklyn, NY
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I'd rather see you naked in person, pictures are rarely flattering.
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Old 08-26-2013, 08:55 AM
 
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People don't get the point that "naked pics" usually don't involve full-body picture. It's rather about "teaser" pictures and poses. for that purpose, it generally means some provocative picture OR breasts/"bottom" picture. Similar is for guys when they send shirtless pictures taken in their bathroom or the picture of their "bottom tools".
I guess people should just recall of so-called "Weiner scandal(s)" (haha "Weiner" - nomen est omen). But most are simply pretending that none of them or their lovers ever either sent or received such pictures to anyone.

This kind of thing is widespread among many people in hitting on other people and exchanging pictures for arousal, because technology made it a very simple and private thing... but many folks will "share" those pictures for various reasons. It's not as if this thing is any recent, nobility in Middle Ages would call someone to paint a provocative picture of their naked parts and then they'd send them to their lovers or potential/future suitors. Many people would send those pictures to several people as a gesture of hitting on them or just for teasers.
Some people were even buying those pictures for personal collections (those were more like "cards" rather than pictures). And those pictures were highly valuable, especially of people who were very famous and influential or just good looking.
See, it's not like Weiner invented it or as if it's a recent thing. And no, I sent none of those pictures to anyone.
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Old 08-26-2013, 10:00 AM
 
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Yeah it's pretty common. I have gone on dates and actually was complimented for not asking them for nude pictures. I have heard of guys asking for nude pics, or even sending pics of their privates as soon as they got the other woman's cell phone number. That kind of thing does nothing for me personally. Sexting, phone sex, doesn't turn me on. I have had women ask me for a picture of stuff like that, and I have told them, no one sees that, unless it is in person, sorry no sneak previews.
Right on. This is how I feel. I might do it with my husband though if I were married and we had to be apart from each other for a looong while.
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Old 08-26-2013, 10:49 AM
 
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The last guy I dated, always asked for them in a joking manner (but I knew he meant it), he started asking for them after we were intimate, and I found it kinda flattering even though I never sent him one. He's the only guy I've dated who actually asked for naked pics lol, but like I said I didn't mind it.
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Old 08-26-2013, 10:58 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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I have told them, no one sees that, unless it is in person, sorry no sneak previews.
That's how I feel about it too. As much as a guy will say that they're for his own personal use, you can't be sure someone wouldn't ever go through his phone and see them or he would take a breakup poorly and email them to everyone or something. In the same vein, a pic of a dude's business does nothing for me. I'd rather get to experience it in person.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:04 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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This is a perfect thread to reflect the differences between the genders. I believe that most men would be thrilled to receive naked pictures of women, and even if they did not find them attractive they wouldn't complain about it they would just discard the photo, yet women have a totally opposite reaction. This is why I am amazed sometimes that people even connect anymore.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:08 AM
 
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This is a perfect thread to reflect the differences between the genders. I believe that most men would be thrilled to receive naked pictures of women, and even if they did not find them attractive they wouldn't complain about it they would just discard the photo, yet women have a totally opposite reaction. This is why I am amazed sometimes that people even connect anymore.
I'm a woman who likes to give and receive...naked pics that is.
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:11 AM
 
Location: Des Moines IA
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That's how I feel about it too. As much as a guy will say that they're for his own personal use, you can't be sure someone wouldn't ever go through his phone and see them or he would take a breakup poorly and email them to everyone or something. In the same vein, a pic of a dude's business does nothing for me. I'd rather get to experience it in person.
Yeah that's another reason why I wouldn't send pics like that to someone. What if she doesn't like it? Or as you said, breakup goes really bad. I don't want her sending that pic to a bunch of her friends laughing at my goodies
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:16 AM
 
Location: State of Transition
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The minute a guy asks for a nude photo of me is the minute he goes into the reject file.

Same goes if he sends an unsolicited nude photo which has happened more times than I can remember.
Seconded!
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Old 08-26-2013, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Virginia
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I'm a woman who likes to give and receive...naked pics that is.
Well you are definitely in a category of your own. I like that. I personally would never mind receiving pictures like that from.a woman
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