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Old 08-25-2013, 05:47 PM
 
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So here's what I don't get:

How come guys you're dating always ask for a nude or suggestive pic of you, when they can just look up porn and see a naked hot girl? One of my guy friends said its because its different when you actually know the naked girl in the pic.
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Old 08-25-2013, 05:48 PM
 
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So here's what I don't get:

How come guys you're dating always ask for a nude or suggestive pic of you, when they can just look up porn and see a naked hot girl? One of my guy friends said its because its different when you actually know the naked girl in the pic.
The minute a guy asks for a nude photo of me is the minute he goes into the reject file.

Same goes if he sends an unsolicited nude photo which has happened more times than I can remember.
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Old 08-25-2013, 05:51 PM
 
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The minute a guy asks for a nude photo of me is the minute he goes into the reject file.

Same goes if he sends an unsolicited nude photo which has happened more times than I can remember.
I'm not all that bothered by them asking as long as we're dating and have been intimate...doesn't mean ill say yes though.

As for him sending an unsolicited naked pic, I agree with you.
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Old 08-25-2013, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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so he can show his friends, lol
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Old 08-25-2013, 05:53 PM
 
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I'm not all that bothered by them asking as long as we're dating and have been intimate...doesn't mean ill say yes though.

As for him sending an unsolicited naked pic, I agree with you.
I've never really gotten to that point with a guy (and the only guy I have dated long term, neither one of us had camera phones) so I suppose I'm not sure how I would respond in that situation. I do know that it's nearly a requirement in early relationships considering how many times I've been asked to send nudes by guys I've been out with once, or even not at all.
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Old 08-25-2013, 05:56 PM
 
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So here's what I don't get:

How come guys you're dating always ask for a nude or suggestive pic of you, when they can just look up porn and see a naked hot girl? One of my guy friends said its because its different when you actually know the naked girl in the pic.
Good question. When a guy asks for a suggestive picture it tends to kill a little of the spark for me. There's just something about it I don't care for.

Guys are always willing to share their own. I think they just have a few stored for easy access.
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Old 08-25-2013, 05:57 PM
 
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I'm not a huge porn guy, that being said, I still like nekid ladies..... I gotta admit... I would be interested in seeing some naked pics of a woman I was seeing.....

Course, I'd never ask, but if it were offered
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Old 08-25-2013, 06:06 PM
 
Location: Buenos Aires
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If you don't want naked pictures of yourself floating around on the net, then don't take them.
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Old 08-25-2013, 06:15 PM
 
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Like someone already said, it could be simply to show off to his friends. More often it's for masturbation and fantasy.
For some reason it doesn't work the opposite way (or so the women will claim officially, you'll never know, read JetJockey's comment, it's a classical response you'll get), but you may argue it's because women have higher standards of what they masturbate to. A topic was out there about "average looks" and unfortunately close to half of the guys fell into rank 1 out of 5 (lowest rank), 80% qualified as being under average grade.

For most guys, if you send them your private parts image (or a teaser image where they can see or they can fantasize about being able to see something they shouldn't), be sure that he'll respond in a "whatever" style, but he'll be aroused with that stranger sending him nude pictures. Lots of guys will spend whole lot of time staring in woman's slit on her skirt, fantasizing that they MIGHT spot something she never planned, same goes with side-view on short-sleeved shirt. You could video-tape guys once in a while to spot their perverted minds trying to gauge the shady parts on woman's body, with their brains overloaded in trying to process if they spoted that she's not wearing pants of just how "deep" did the picture showed her crotch. Trust me, some will stare for quite a long time and keep re-visiting the image.

EDITED: message shortened just for an anonymous poster.

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Old 08-25-2013, 06:54 PM
 
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Heck no.

If a guy asked me for naked pictures, I'd cut him off right there. Unless he's my boyfriend and even then, I'm not sure I'd go for it. If I were to send something, I'd make sure my face doesn't show.

If a guy sends me unsolicited pictures of himself, I'd definitely stop talking to him. Even if he's my boyfriend. I would not want to see his private parts on my phone. It just does not turn me on. There's nothing attractive about a male's private parts.
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