Women, would you be with a guy who frequented strip clubs? (girlfriend, attracted)

[om shanti shanti]

I wouldn't. My partner was invited to a bachelor party at a cigar bar in town and he went and hung out with a good friend of his. The party then was going to carry on at a strip club somewhere. My guy and his pal ditched the group and went together out to eat or something. They just are not into that sort of thing.

The mentality of a man who likes to visit strip clubs is not in line with mine. It has nothing to do with jealousy but rather the consciousness of a man who is so into sex that he has to see strange women undress and pay good money for it.

[Rubi3]

Would be all right for him to go if he took me along.

[om shanti shanti]

Originally Posted by Rubi3

Would be all right for him to go if he took me along.

Methinks thou hast been watching "Showgirls" too many times!

[Amisi]

I wouldn't. I could never be with a guy who has such a disrespect for women that he would go to strip clubs and support that type of thing. Also, men who frequent strip clubs absolutely take it to the next level with lap dances and paying the hookers/strippes for sex acts. That's a fact.

I used to work for this guy. He was a real mental case. He would go to strip bars constantly and he thought he was so "special" because he could "pick up" a stripper. Okay, you're PAYING her to have sex with you --- you're "very special" . One of them played him big time, though. She pretended to really like him and be his "girlfriend". She wouldn't go with any other men (when he was around) and had him convinced he was so great because he was able to get a stripper/hooker to only be with him (meanwhile, she was doing her "job" with any man who flashed cash at her. lol!!). Well, she convinced him to buy her a brand new Lexus (all cash, put the car in her name). She dumped him the following week. HILARIOUS!!!!!!

The jerk eventually left NY and went to Las Vegas, thinking he was going to be a big time businessman in "Sin City". Yeah, so big time that he lost everything for being a drunk and being a coke addict.

[cloven]

My answer is no, but I don't think I've ever had to decide (based on this issue alone).
The guys to whom I'm attracted/interested (and who are attracted to and interested in me)
tend not to hold the view of women as ornament/adornment in the first place, so don't frequent such places.

[Rubi3]

Originally Posted by om shanti shanti

Methinks thou hast been watching "Showgirls" too many times!

I don't know what you mean and you don't either. lol

[mainebrokerman]

those girls have to work too, maybe earning their way thru college,,,a noble effort worth supporting


no strip clubs in maine- so maybe this is more of an issue in the big cities...

imo when guys go to a strip club, it is eye candy, no touching or sex....if he goes once in a great while, i dont see much harm in this,,

this subject came up recently at a dinner party- men looking at strippers and porn- the younger lady's seemed much more liberated about it- if its just looking , no big deal-unless the fall out impacts their relationship...
the women who had the most problems with this,,was the more religious lady's or the lady's way out of shape and felt threatened

[srjth]

No, but it doesn't matter. Men who frequent strip clubs could care less what you or I think. They are busy pining for strippers and wondering why all women don't act like strippers.

[srjth]

Originally Posted by Rubi3

I don't know what you mean and you don't either. lol

This should be stickied on this entire forum for everything. lol!

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by srjth

No, but it doesn't matter. Men who frequent strip clubs could care less what you or I think. They are busy pining for strippers and wondering why all women don't act like strippers.

Best post!