If women claim to want nice guys, then why is reality the opposite? (boyfriend, younger)

[BradPiff]

Because Sexual attraction and Emotions will always override logic, this is especially true for young women.

Bad boys are simply better at turning women on then nice guys.

[acealive1]

this is the answer to why women do it......

[Prince_Frog]

Damn right.

[Dewdroplet76]

Because women are stupid, shallow, evil, cruel, horrible creatures who thrive on making the lives of nice men a living hell. Is that the answer that some of you keep waiting for? Seems like it!

[Rated_R]

Originally Posted by jade408

It is more like most of the guys billing themselves as nice guys are acting nice with the expectation they will get something in return.



I am on my phone, please forgive the typos.

I'd say more like pretending to be something they clearly are not to attract women.

If he doesn't have the balls to be his true self at all times.....screw it as far as I'm concerned.

[upndown]

If you read the women's posts, you realize that they have a different definition of "nice." To a man, "nice" guys are people who are polite to women and treat them well. To a woman, "nice" guys are hot guys who for some reason only are interested in them. It's just the usual woman thing where they don't like to say what they mean because it would make them look bad.

[Rated_R]

Now if you will excuse me...

Back to being a "bad boy" with a heart of gold.


<3

[Rhenzanite]

Originally Posted by jade408

It is more like most of the guys billing themselves as nice guys are acting nice with the expectation they will get something in return.



I am on my phone, please forgive the typos.

This is it exactly. 'Nice' guys that are only nice because they want something in return, not because they're genuinely decent men. Women are not machines that give out sex when you insert nice tokens.

[upndown]

Nice guys don't want something in return. They're just irritated that women talk about wanting nice guys when they don't. I've never seen a nice guy demand that a girl go out with him.

[Rated_R]

Originally Posted by upndown

Nice guys don't want something in return. They're just irritated that women talk about wanting nice guys when they don't. I've never seen a nice guy demand that a girl go out with him.

"Bad boys" don't care if you are a "nice guy" either....so long as you don't ***t on us, we're cool.

Fellas, your worst enemy is "the gals".

It ain't us, trust me.

Any self confident guy doesn't give a damn how you play your game or choose to be.