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Most men don't get a girl because the men try to sell themselves to the girl.
The reason this doesn't work for most men, is because most men are uninteresting and don't stand out from one another.
So all you have to do , is turn the tables on them.
Say you meet a good looking girl at the bar/restaurant, tell her
"you look really beautiful, but then again so do half the women in this city"
"what sets you apart from the average woman?"
They will think to themselves, 'what does set me apart?'
And then they'll be scrambling to think of reasons why their special and better than other women, and they won't think of anything but general qualities people tell others like on job applications.
"I'm hardworking, creative, open minded"
then you say
"Oh cool! So what was the last creative thing you've done or made?"
They won't have a good answer..
Now their confidence is lowered, and you start selling yourself
"I was reading this book about social experiments of how people act when they wear different types of clothes and how people treat them different"
So say something like that above, something you read about , etc...
Now you're positioning yourself as in a higher class than her.
Women only go after guys that they assume are in higher classes/ more powerful classes, more important people than them.
The rest is easy, just talk about whatever, have a few drinks, and go back to your place.
When you get down to it everyone is boring. Most people just delude themselves into thinking they're hobbies/interest/passion make them unique. Just like every other sch*ck who participates in the same pastime. Unless you're someone like Felix Baumgartner.
It assumes the woman is less intelligent than you are. And that is unlikely.
For the most part your correct here. Women are much more intelligent in things like realizing what a guy wants and why guys do some of the stuff they do in order to get into their pants etc
But when it comes to real stuff like talking about social experiments, politics, the economy, most women are not smarter than most guys (guys that don't get chicks often). That is how these type of guys can get women in my Original Post.
When you get down to it everyone is boring. Most people just delude themselves into thinking they're hobbies/interest/passion make them unique. Just like every other sch*ck who participates in the same pastime. Unless you're someone like Felix Baumgartner.
Are you a female? Does it excite you when men jump from space?
I've always wanted to go skydiving, have you been? If you haven't we can meet up and go together for our first times.
it's a routine, not geared to insult a woman's intelligence, sorry Nila. it's a routine to generate fake confidence by the guy. "fake it till you make it". it's a routine that is a combination approach, opener and demonstrating higher value.
life becomes much easier when you are in fact confident to open the set, differentiate yourself by being interesting, and you are a man of status/higher value.
i know it's easy to read bad motive in anything a man does, even when he approaches and says "Hi, you look great tonight". some women find it offensive that he is interrupting them.
i said it before and i will say it again, ppl are stupid to think that PUA is fundamentally designed to insult, demean, marginalize, and degrade women because no one is going to charm babes and get laid doing that. NO ONE. At its core, it is designed to make the man more confident, interesting and attractive to the woman, like "what kind of man do you like?.. oh yeah, a guy who is confident and makes me laugh (emotional attraction)." stop being stupid about PUA. you do yourself a disservice by believing you know what PUA is all about, and to others by discouraging resources that could be help. you will make more progress in identifying bad/poor PUA techniques (and there are plenty) from the good ones, e.g., confidence, eliminating approach anxiety, being a good conversationalist, etc. skills many women on CDR encourage.
p.s.: im sorry if i insulted any female poster's intelligence by my comments here, it was only trying to make you hot for me so that i could jump your bones a lot easier. hope it's working!
Last edited by nokiddin; 10-02-2013 at 11:44 PM..
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