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Whoops, I meant to say all you guys need to stop whining about women and start looking at yourselves. It is not a problem with the women, it's a problem with you.. so figure out what you're doing wrong and stop worrying about the girls who are not nice.
Blaming yourself for everything is no more reasonable or realistic than blaming others for everything. Saying it is always your own fault unfairly shifts blame away from people, male or female, who really do go treating other like crap.
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Originally Posted by burgler09
It is 100% that person's fault if they take a girl who is rude or a harsh rejection and generalize that every woman acts that way. That kind of logic creates ridiculous threads like we see and miserable people. There's millions of rude women and millions of rude guys. Instead of dwelling on the bad people, think about the good people.. because people are generally nicer than mean.
Generalizing is just lazy no matter how you slice whether it makes you miserable or happy.
I think you both are asking for a middle ground don't see everyone as one way and don't say everything is all your fault. That just makes all the sense.
Whoops, I meant to say all you guys need to stop whining about women and start looking at yourselves. It is not a problem with the women, it's a problem with you.. so figure out what you're doing wrong and stop worrying about the girls who are not nice.
Your life will be a whole lot happier
More complicated than that. Men own the problems they bring to the table, but those problems are often exacerbated by women.
This is not the voice of reason. This is the voice of a vaginafied white knight. You see, any male who gas the audacity to suggest the problem is not with women is clearly just trying to endear himself to the women on the board. I have been told so myself a few times, so I guess it must be true.
What's so bad about being vaginafied?
I wish I was "vaginafied" (meaning swarmed with such)
Last edited by TJenkins602; 10-23-2013 at 05:26 PM..
I was looking at the REASONS that guys blame women and trying to figure a way to get around that.
It's pretty obvious that a LOT more men whine here than women. There must be a reason and a way to internalize that to get around it.
It's also a bad idea to blame yourself for everything. You'll be working out, trying to get a better job, and buying hundreds of dollars in clothes to improve yourself for women. That's another discussion though.
Yeah, I went down that path myself. It's not healthy.
Just look at your part and work on what you can.
And don't give anymore of these conceited beyotches your time, they are not worth it. There are women out there that will appreciate you for who you are.
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