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Old 10-21-2013, 02:33 PM
 
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In my honest opinion, some women need to get over themselves. When I approach a woman to talk to her, I just want to talk and I'm only being friendly. I never bring up sex at all. I offered to help a woman with a paper in my college class she accepted my help. She then said "I won't have sex with you." I looked at her with a wtf look. I said "I'm just being friendly to you and helping you, get over yourself." Seriously, why do most women think this way? Did it ever occur that some men are just being friendly to you? When I'm being friendly to a woman, that's it.
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Old 10-21-2013, 02:37 PM
 
Location: On the Chesapeake
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Because most men won't turn it down if offered, even if the man is being lazy about looking.
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Old 10-21-2013, 02:38 PM
 
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Because you're a guy, and that's all you think about, and that apparently scares women.

While men do think of women/sex all the time, we are completely capable of keeping those wants and emotions away and act like a sensible adult. They are only half of the total population of humans.
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Old 10-21-2013, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Southern Illinois
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Because most of the time men are. However, her reply was completely inappropriate.
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Old 10-21-2013, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Canada
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Because of bad experiences with other guys who do have that expectation if they do anything for a woman?
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Old 10-21-2013, 02:39 PM
 
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In my honest opinion, some women need to get over themselves. When I approach a woman to talk to her, I just want to talk and I'm only being friendly. I never bring up sex at all. I offered to help a woman with a paper in my college class she accepted my help. She then said "I won't have sex with you." I looked at her with a wtf look. I said "I'm just being friendly to you and helping you, get over yourself." Seriously, why do most women think this way? Did it ever occur that some men are just being friendly to you? When I'm being friendly to a woman, that's it.
Because the world is full of stupid *******s, with both sets of genitals. Unfortunately they tend not to wear signs to identify themselves.
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Old 10-21-2013, 02:39 PM
 
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There could be a variety of reasons whereas the example you provided the woman may have become jaded from alterior motives from men.
Then again it migh be a defense mechanism.
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Old 10-21-2013, 02:39 PM
 
Location: USA
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She then said "I won't have sex with you." I looked at her with a wtf look. I said "I'm just being friendly to you and helping you, get over yourself."
LOLZ I would have said the same thing too!
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Old 10-21-2013, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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In my honest opinion, some women need to get over themselves. When I approach a woman to talk to her, I just want to talk and I'm only being friendly. I never bring up sex at all. I offered to help a woman with a paper in my college class she accepted my help. She then said "I won't have sex with you." I looked at her with a wtf look. I said "I'm just being friendly to you and helping you, get over yourself." Seriously, why do most women think this way? Did it ever occur that some men are just being friendly to you? When I'm being friendly to a woman, that's it.
Because they've learned from experience that men almost never go out of their way to help or befriend women unless they have a romantic and/or sexual motive. I mean, almost never. If you really are being "just friendly," then you are in a very small minority.
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Old 10-21-2013, 02:39 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Maybe she's just a jerk, or maybe the last guy who offered to help with a paper expected a physical reward for his trouble and she wanted to be clear with you.
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